2 Facts about orgasm, which many people have no idea

1-) Orgasm is one thing, ejaculation is another.

Did you find it strange? But that's it!

Orgasm it is a neuromuscular reflex. The muscles are filled with energy, with excitement, as if it were a battery recharging. Orgasm is nothing more than the discharge of this energy.

Ejaculation it's sperm expulsion, that's all!

Orgasm can be ejaculatory, which is the way that we men usually experience most of the time. However, it is important to make it clear that they are different functions, that is, there is orgasm without ejaculation and there is ejaculation without orgasm.

In a tantric development, one of the benefits that can be obtained is precisely the ability to disassociate orgasm from ejaculation, which provides more pleasurable, lasting orgasms and greater body awareness.

2-) There is non-sexual orgasm.

If the first topic was already strange, now it "bugged" for good, right?

Well, that's right. Orgasm is something sensory, and can be achieved from non-sexual sources of pleasure. Like? I will give some examples: when tasting a food, listening to a song, when doing a specific breathing technique, when receiving a (non-sexual) affection. An orgasm can be achieved through countless stimuli.

If there is an openness to break the patterns so rooted in our culture, you can develop the ability to expand your orgasms beyond sexual stimuli. I don't know a better tool for this than tantra. And I say this with total propriety, based on my own experience. It is not something that I read or studied, but that I experienced in practice. It's liberating!

Unfortunately, our sex education is very poor (not to mention non-existent), and to make matters worse, the influence of pornography leaves us limited to what we see, and we end up making our orgasms absolutely sexual (in the poorest and most mechanical way there is), mental and far removed from any sensory potential that our bodies are capable of feeling.

An orgasm, when it ceases to be mental and visual, can have other properties, greater intensity and reverberate positively in our lives, bringing greater happiness, contentment and vitality. Would that be good for the way our society lives? Happy, full people who absolutely own all their orgasmic potential? It's to think about ....