4 reasons for fear of judgment to prevent your orgasm.

1- In order to have an orgasm it is necessary to be in a state of relaxation, both physical and mental. You cannot relax when you are trying to "control" what the other person thinks of you. 

2- When there is a great concern with what is outside of you (the other person) the perception of the body's sensations diminish. It is as if there is a kind of body anesthesia. You will have less pleasure, even if you receive a good and prolonged stimulus.

3- You do what you think is appropriate in the opinion of the other person. It doesn't do what it would really like in sex. In the end, he has a feeling of dissatisfaction. Because they are unable to expose their real needs, they are not met.

4- You are afraid to reveal a fantasy, a wish or to ask the other person to do something that excites you, as if it would show something bad about you. There is a break in the complicity and intimacy necessary for your pleasure.

This can all happen even with husband / wife / boyfriends. Becoming aware of this is the first step towards pleasure. Attachments area