5 sexual beliefs that block female sexuality. Did any of them get you?

Would you like to let go more? Unlock your vital and sexual energy?

To be freer in bed and experience the full potential of pleasure your body has?

This article has 2 objectives:

1-Take the top 5 common beliefs in the female world and that may even be blocking your sex life and your vital energy.

2-Introduce you to free techniques so that you can start today, with your partner, to start an incredible journey of sensory development and discovery of your orgasmic potential

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Belief 1 - “Normal women have orgasms whenever they make love”

This is one of the sexual beliefs that happens both in the female and in the male world, because men too, for their part, are attached to ejaculation. They think that for a relationship to be normal, the man needs to have ejaculated.

But back to women: Orgasm is just the consequence of something that, in principle, is much more important: a true marital relationship, with intimacy, depth. Having a relationship that represents the union of two souls that want to evolve together.

If you had an orgasm, great. But if you haven't, it might as well be cool. So many things can be appreciated in a loving relationship… Fixing yourself on a point like orgasm, on a pre-established outcome, can add unnecessary weight to a relationship that could have wonderful potentials.

In my therapeutic consultations, it is incredible the number of women who, when letting go of the need to have an orgasm and who began to simply seek to know themselves better, accept their own bodies and live their sexuality with presence and truth, suddenly began to have more orgasmic relationships. Without effort. Lightly and harmoniously.

Belief 2- “Vaginal orgasms are more feminine and mature than clitoral ones”

Poor clitoris…so cute…

This belief has its roots in psychoanalysis when Freud put together a theory that supported this sexual belief. But a few years later it was discovered that vaginal orgasms have a very intimate relationship with clitoral orgasms, as they were related to innervations that were part of the neural network of the clitoris.

Even Freud assumed he had incomplete knowledge of human biology. In the end, the vaginal orgasm came to be, by many specialists, considered as a type of clitoral orgasm.

This belief came to be seen as absurd and the result of a sexist culture that did not recognize the female clitoral masturbatory orgasm as legitimate.

Of course, many women want to have orgasmic experiences in tune with their partner and would like to come during penetration. All this is possible, as long as the woman seeks to know herself better, explore her sexuality more and learn how the main muscles and points related to vaginal orgasm work.

Learning pompoarism techniques, doing self-touch, masturbating in different ways... All of this can facilitate self-knowledge and help you, at the moment of penetration, to be able to stimulate that point or that region inside your vagina that leads you to an orgasm.

Belief 3-“Women who dislike exotic forms of sex are frigid”

Everyone knows that friend who brags about having sex in the elevator, having lived exotic experiences. She recounts the episode with the utmost naturalness and leaves us with the flea behind our ears regarding our own sexuality.

Are you one of those who never had sex in the elevator? All good. It is important to understand that we are all unique and that this is not an indicator of whether or not you are sexually normal.

Are you that person who has sex in the elevator? That's fine too. Diversity is what makes us richer.

There are so many more important things in life than the fact that we enjoy taking risks, that we enjoy doing something exotic. Each person has their own life and feels pleasure in a different way. Full stop.

Belief 4-"Women who do not reach orgasm easily and quickly have problems"

Most complaints related to female sexuality have to do with the difficulty women have in reaching orgasm with their partners.

But the point is that man has the ability to reach orgasm very quickly. In general, this represents half of a woman's time. So the most common thing that exists in relationships is a man ejaculating before the woman gets there.

This is a problem? For many people, yes. Is it the woman's fault? No.

What is the solution for these cases?

Try to make your partner aware of your own needs. Guide him “how to do it” so that the relationship is balanced and that the two can have pleasure together. But please don't feel guilty about not reaching orgasm in a practical, quick and easy way.

Would you like your partner to last longer in bed? Do you want to live a hyperorgasmic sexuality with him? So know how can Tantra help you? I can help you develop all this as a Tantric Educator, I bring this self-knowledge through human sexuality.

Belief 5-Women are frigid if they don't have sexual fantasies and wanton if they do

If I stimulate myself with erotic situations, I have sexual fanatasias and I moan in bed, I am wanton. But if I don't have them I'm frigid. Who hasn't charged themselves this way?

Notice how the woman has no way out here. Either she is frigid or wanton. It's sad how many women still carry so much guilt and repression when it comes to sexuality.

We put unnecessary obligations on ourselves and that often lead us to frustration, anxiety and even depression. With my method, I help you to resignify all of this and elevate a connection with yourself with your sacred feminine.

Sexual beliefs, in general, are limiting and unfavorable to healthy sexuality

In conclusion, there are no hard and fast rules for healthy sexuality. A healthy sexuality is a sexuality free of goals, performances and results.

A healthy sexuality is one that is in tune with our being, regardless of whether it is exotic, orgasmic, hyperorgasmic, with penetration, without penetration...

But do you feel obliged to live a sexuality that is not in tune with what you feel inside? Are you still alive and don't know how to get rid of these “sexual beliefs”?

I, as a professional educator, will support you, help you to evolve in this field. Teaching you more, testing new things, which can open new horizons. My objective with Tântra is not just connected with a massage session and not focused only on orgasm, but it helps you to arrive in a new life scenario, teach you what school doesn't teach.

And about tantra.