The importance of orgasm in personal fulfillment in our lives
posted by Veronica Ananda
We know here that many women cannot reach orgasm and many of them, even know what orgasm is, always paints this doubt, if you've felt it, if you're not sure, if there's something else in her own body that she can discover. Abraham Maslow, an outstanding American psychologist, subdivided human needs into a pyramid of five categories in terms of needs and self-fulfillment.
The needs for physiological supply come first and include breathing, eating, hydrating, sleeping and having sex.
Decreasingly, in its functioning and realization, there are the needs of security, employment, remuneration, shelter (social needs such as maintaining a group or family life), needs of esteem (it is the need to feel worthy, respected by oneself and by others , with prestige and recognition, power, pride, etc.), and need for self-realization (autonomy, independence and self-control.).
And the step above the pyramid can only be completed if the one below has been supplied.
So, sex, sexual intercourse is something that, despite being taboo, is something that needs to be looked at with affection.
How much of our erroneous judgments and beliefs, how many thoughts declaring "I can't", "I don't like it very much", "is it dirty, wrong or sin" has been blocking our capacity for personal fulfillment?
Being touched, feeling desire and having orgasms is something that if it isn't, it should be normal, if we eliminate our taboos.
And we often do not reach orgasms by emotional breastplates, cited by the Ukrainian writer Wilhem Reich, a former psychoanalyst who was a follower of Freud and, which are caused by pain, memories, trauma, are preventing our bodies (and our minds) from letting go.
The touch of tantric massage, combined with breathing and yes, has the power little by little to release these emotional memories, eliminating our traumas and internal conflicts, generating a provocation in the skin that goes directly to our neurotransmitters, and the bodily cellular memory where this information of trauma, pain and blockages were stored are gradually released, until the point when the blocking point becomes present consciousness, and at that moment the body releases memories insigths, laughs and cries, and progressive unblockings.
At that moment, the woman who barely knew the body starts to have accesses to the state of expansion of body awareness and discovers the orgasmic potential of her body.
Once the orgasm or the hyperorgasm is accessed, known, awakened and released, several blocks and inhibitions about yourself are also, being able to access from there a much more powerful woman, connects, owns herself, her pleasure, her own attitudes and choices. You know what you can. You already know how you achieve your pleasure. You already know what was blocking ... That's why we say that Tantric Massage transforms. And it really does.