Tantric massage and the “happy ending”

All of these messages that I mentioned below, I actually received via cell phone, in addition to many similar ones, are just a few examples:

• "But do you only use your hands, or do you use your mouth too?"

• "But what if I pay a little more?"

• "Do you do without the gloves?"

• "Do you know of anyone who does as I am asking?"

• "Do you have a problem with caring for gifted people?"

• "Send me pictures of you?"

• "Do you submit, and how?"

• "Do you have sex at the end of the massage?"

• "Don't you even pay a difference?"

• "Is there a release?"

• "Angel, do you finish?"

• "Are you going to make me put it all out?"

• "But, what if my body wants you?"

• "What do you mean, it doesn't have to do with you?"

• "What if I want to kiss you?"

• “Wow, I loved your education. Babe, it's just a massage. But with such an education, my mother will love meeting her daughter-in-law. Kkkkkkkk. Let's score? ”

• “I want a happy ending in half an hour. What can you do for me? ”

• "Doesn't it do anything more sexual?"

• "I would like to know a little more about the submission."

• "I want it with cum in the end."

• "I want a relaxing massage with cumshot at the end".

• "It makes me more horny to touch the woman."

• “You don't make a little exception for me, do you? To do the naked massage with manual or oral release? I really need to give you a tasty cumshot! ”

I perceive these messages as the fruit of our macho culture and devoid of any

healthy sex education. It is part of my job, clarifying and helping to understand what tantric massage is.

I clarify, I talk, I explain, but I realize that many people are still completely unaware of the importance of sexuality in our lives, are still unable to see the sacred in it at all, and want to continue that way. It seeks only a breath, a momentary, scarce pleasure, a small glimpse of relief for mediocre life, a simplistic and degrading enjoyment only.

They are still unable to see how much more work I offer, they are so programmed and accustomed that they are with what they already know and seek. The sad reality of many men who come to me when they learn that I work with tantric massage. I never received anything like that from a woman.

I hope at least that it will be registered somewhere in their brains, when they came to me one day to supply that need that was moving them at the moment, and you can remember what I told you about the preciousness of kundalini and everything else that massage tantric can bring you benefit in life. Let them feel that call one day and can at least have the idea of ​​how to get there.

I am not here judging and blaming them, I just try to clarify a little and help them break with these things that they have learned and reproduced throughout their lives.

I offer something infinitely more precious than what these men have been looking for. They want more of the same, to throw the energy down, they are enslaved to that form that they believe they feel pleasure.

I offer the possibility to use your own energy to nourish yourself, to discover possibilities of ecstasy and expansion that the vast majority of people never imagined they would be able to feel.

To experience continuous, long-lasting, healing orgasms, including the entire body. To feel the energy rising and circulating through your body.

To work on your breathing, in order to expand your internal spaces and benefit from this ability.

To learn to express yourself, to know and to hear your own sound and vibration emitted by him when he feels orgasms.

To increase body awareness, awareness of oneself, to perceive parts of the body that until then had never realized how sensitive they are to touch. To bring your body's bioelectricity to the surface of your skin, to reconnect with yourself, to naturalize nudity and to realize how important sexuality is and is linked to all other areas of your life.

To break boundaries with conditioning and open up to countless possibilities that existence makes available to us.

To transcend your pleasure. To become more sensitive and create new neural connections to relate to in life. From flooding your body with hormones beneficial to it.

And perhaps accessing memories of the unconscious, bringing them up and reframing them.

There are not a few people who have received this enormous gift by allowing themselves to experience tantric therapy sessions involving massage. And I invite you to reflect on how you have handled and lived your sexuality. To break with the unhealthy vision that we were culturally conditioned to know.

Cross that line and realize how much this view neglects this very important area of ​​our lives. Expand your perception of the world and of life, overflow your sexual energy, break with this limiting and shallow pattern with which most people are content to make use of this sacred energy, which is so much greater than all of this.

Without a sexual relationship, you would not be here. So, I think it's worthwhile for us to stop and think about their view of sex and sexuality. Do I see it as the source of creation, which generates life, or am I misrepresenting things out there?

I am a tantric therapist, I work with healthy sexuality, with activation and use of vital energy in a productive and loving way, meditation techniques, courses and experiences that transform lives, jobs capable of increasing love and connection for individuals and between couples. This is my job.

A big hug and great reflection to all!