The Male Multiple Orgasm Technique

No tantra, we connect with our partners on a deeper level, because we also connect with the UNIVERSAL CHI or energy that is in our body as a VITAL ENERGY FORCE.

One of the ways to access this powerful energy in male people is through Lingam Massage.

Yes, this is a fancy name for “manual labor”, so to speak, to make it clearer and simpler in Western male language. However, this “manual work in the form of massage” is done with total intention, consideration, respect, care and desire to bring out an altruistic pleasure to the partner (or interacting), so it becomes very different from masturbation.

So what is Lingam Massage?

It is a tantric sexual practice focused on massaging the penis.

Unlike masturbation, Lingam Massage involves not only massaging the penis, but also incorporating more advanced techniques, including the testicles, the perineum and the prostate, also known as "The Sacred Point", or P-Spot.

Lingam Massage is not a practice aimed only at male orgasm. Beyond this, it is a practice whose main objective is to expand and raise the level of pleasure even more to the point of reaching waves of multiple orgasms throughout the entire body.

YES, MULTIPLE ORGASMS ARE NOT ONLY FOR PEOPLE WITH CLITORIS.

Lingam is the Sanskrit word for penis and is loosely translated as "Light Stick."

In the Tantric philosophy, Lingam occupies “a place of” greater love and respect, in the same way as Yoni, or vagina. (The Yoni Massage is considered the equivalent of the Lingam Massage, performed only on people with vaginas.)

When you bring a person's sexual pleasure through your "Light Stick", you are filled with that same energy or light in a conscious exchange of energy that aims to give pleasure, and I am not talking about the sexual act itself .

An) Tantric Therapist(a) he/she does not make his/her body available for this divine and sacred interaction, he/she only leads the person in this sensory learning process of expanding pleasure in the body of those who purchase this service, where the interactant only RECEIVES the massage, in an act of respect and reverence to whoever is providing such a pleasant ride for him. The sexual act, of equal pleasure, must not be the pursuit of someone who is receiving the Tantric massage of a professional who works in this area. O sex itself should be widely practiced in a healthy way with the chosen partner, outside of a professional approach. So you need to learn to RECEIVE such meaningful and special care in your own body and understand your own pleasure more broadly.

Much of Sacred Sexuality is about learning to love your own body, as well as your partner's body, including your penis and vagina, without any restrictions.

Many female, or even male, people are still not entirely comfortable and confident in handling a penis. If this is the case, I suggest you start reflecting on any negative impressions you may have inherited from your parents or culture about human sexuality and your sexual organs.

Lingam Massage is a practice that really honors the penis and those who have them. Just as the Yoni Massage honors this sacred space, the vagina, and those that have it, however this article does not address aspects related to Yoni or vagina and female sexual pleasure, fitting an exclusive article for this other topic of equal importance.

Lingam (penis) is the organ that most pleases people of the male gender.

There is also an enormous amount of sexual energy or CHI in the penis of a male person, and learning to stimulate and circulate that energy is really a very powerful thing.

In India, the birthplace of Tantra, there are numerous statues of “Shiva” that represent the Divine Male with his Lingams on display showing how much honor, respect and reverence this culture deposits in the body, the vehicle, the sacred vessel of our spirituality.

For many people, sexual pleasure represents a meditative state. I particularly agree 100% with this way of understanding pleasure, male or female.

For the ancient Tantric practitioners, this cult of pleasure provided by the body represented something sacred and secret: This powerful energy of God or Divine Male and Sacred Feminine was exclusively linked to the penis or the vagina, which was thought to contain the more masculine or more feminine essence concentrated only on these points of the body.

Think of it this way: Sacred Sexuality, or Sacred Sex itself, is about treating your partner's body like a temple and your penis or vagina as the most sacred place of all where sexual practice elevates spirituality, so you feel more connected with your own essence and just by loving yourself, you can offer true love to others.

10 TIPS ON HOW TO MAKE A LINGAM + P-SPOT MASSAGE “FROM THE GODS” IN YOUR PARTNER (OR INTERACTIVE)

1. Lay your partner (or interactor) in front of you as comfortable as possible. You can use a pillow under his head or hips, if he prefers. Sit in the middle of his legs, so that he has easy access to his genitals.

2. Remind the partner to breathe deeply during the entire massage process. This will help in an integral relaxation, body and mind.

put total awareness in the breath it is what most clearly separates a tantric process from a merely carnal process.

3. Remember to breathe too. I usually name this breath of “Breath of Happiness” (or violet breathing - Reichian practice): Receive the partner's energy of excitement and pleasure from inhalation, and send that loving energy to him on your exhale.

This special breath will bring you three benefits:

• You will have a deeper feeling of connection or meditation and mindfulness.
• This also provides an empathic connection with the sensations and feelings of the partner, in an energy exchange process, without offering your body, touching it only with your hands in order to extend your heart pulses.
• This will increase your intuition so you will be more aware of what the partner needs without having to verbalize and go into mental processes. The more he is focused on his body, the less fanciful and mental this process will be and his body will become more and more receptive to the touches he is receiving.

Again, it is very important to encourage the partner to breathe deeply during the entire process of the massage, also bringing sounds to the body. You can use the sounds audible to him from your own breathing by encouraging him in this energetic and meditative connection, tuning the partner in what I called above the Breath of Happiness. Take a little breath while trying to combine your biorhythms. While you do the massage, keep reminding yourself to always breathe deeply, relax and receive all that good energy.

4. Lubricate the areas around the penis. Use a massage oil. I prefer slightly heated coconut oil because it is natural and super moisturizing and when heated brings unique sensations of welcome. Then slide your hands up and down your thighs, before reaching the testicles and penis. This will also make the partner feel more relaxed.

In a non-professional approach, you, who are not a therapist, can praise your partner for something you love about him and what you are seeing and touching.

5. Go to the testicles. Massage them gently. You can also use your nails gently on the testicles, pulling them slightly as if to scratch the testicles, always gently, as it is a very sensitive area. Wrap the testicles and massage them under your palm.

Slowly massage the area around the testicles and the penis (that is, the inner thighs, the perineum that is the area between the testicles and anus, as well as the pubic bone in front of the penis.

Be very careful with "the balls" (laughs). People differ a lot as to the type of touch they like in this region. Some people are more sensitive to tickling than others, for example. It's okay to ask your partner how he feels when he touches his testicles before he even starts massaging them.

Once you have stimulated the areas around the penis and the partner is clearly wanting more, then move to the shaft of the penis.

6. As for the penis, the variety in the intensity of the touches here is the key at this moment of the massage:

• Vary the pressure of the touch, from most intense to lightest.
• At the same time, vary the sequence of movements up and down in a slight twisting action.
• Vary the action with just one hand and then with both hands.
• When using only one hand, alternate between using the right hand and the left.
• Vary the speed from slow to fast. Start slowly and increase to a faster pace, then go back to a slow speed again. Continue alternating pressure, speed, pace and methods.
• In addition, alternate the movements of the penile axis starting from the root to the glans (or head) of the penis.
• Once in the glans (or head), you can continue the straight up and down movement, or you can do the twist - going from the root of the shaft and stopping just below the tip of the penis.

When using two hands at the same time, you can do it in a few different ways:

• Both hands hold the penis in the same direction with the fingers pointing to the same side in the slight twisting movement
• One hand holds the penis to one side, and the other faces the other.
• Both hands move up and down at the same time. Oil is very much your friend here. Helps to create a smoother and sliding movement.
• The lower hand moves up and down while the upper hand pivots / twists the tip of the penis.

7. Don't let it climax. Keep him on the verge of orgasm.

Now, the partner may be even more excited and may want to ejaculate. If you are paying close attention to his breathing, how his body is moving, and his moans, you will be able to predict whether he is approaching orgasm. When you realize that he is almost there, minimize the intensity of his movements and remind him to breathe and swim in the wave of orgasmic sensations he is experiencing.

The penis can go from very rigid and erect to semi-rigid. Do not worry. This is expected.

8. Stimulate the Sacred Point Externally (The Prostate) with the P-Spot Massage

The prostate is a walnut-sized gland, located internally between the bladder and the penis. When stimulated correctly, it is very pleasant. You can access the prostate internally, by inserting your fingers or a prostate massage vibrator into the anus, or externally, by massaging in circular movements with gentle pressure, with or without the vibrator.

If your partner has no experience with prostate massage, start outside. To find the "sacred site" externally, look for a slightly hollow indentation between the size of a pea and a nut halfway between the testicles and the anus. Gently push in gently and slowly letting the partner guide you in terms of pressure.

When you get the point right, massage it by pushing it with your fingers, stepping back and pushing it again. You will be making circular movements. If your partner is especially hairy, use more oil so that you can reach the area more easily. Or better yet, you can suggest him to shave the region for easier access.

9. Stimulate the Prostate Internally. Ask your partner if he wants to take the prostate massage to the next level with an internal massage. If he is willing to enjoy this experience, you will then relax the anal musculature or with massage oil (I suggest that the oil remains slightly heated throughout all stages of the massage, for this you can use a richeaut with candle warming the bottom of the oil packaging, provided it is glass). Then, continue massaging the outside of the anus with your fingers in a slow, smooth circular motion. Do not insert the finger (s) without his permission. Ask if he is ready for more.

If your partner is ready for insertion, make sure that the anus and the finger (s) are lubricated. Make sure that your nails do not have uneven edges to avoid hurting you. Start by inserting just the tip of a finger at the beginning. Move it back and forth to relax your partner's anal muscles. Once he is comfortable with these touches, you can insert one or more fingers more deeply, as the prostate is about 2,5 to 5 cm into the anus, closer to the anterior wall of the rectum.

Once there, you can gently place your partner's hips over one of your hands, moving the finger (s) of the other hand internally from side to side, up and down, or "milking" with a movement “comes” with your finger (s). You can ask how he is feeling, if he is enjoying the movement and then let him feel all the sensations.

Prostate massage can sometimes be difficult to do with your fingers, which is why nowadays we can easily find prostate massagers that you can also use if you feel more comfortable.

10. To end the massage with a happy ending FOR THE SOUL acting on the energetic body, you can stimulate your partner's moment of climax by encouraging an ejaculatory orgasm, for practice offered by a professional, or if you are with your sexual partner, move on to sexual intercourse (I repeat: the sexual act can and should be included as both wish, but only in a personal approach, not with a professional in the field who is not available in this way to the interactant). If your partner is practicing semen retention, you can encourage him to save his fluids as he learns to transmute genital orgasms into full-body energy orgasms.

Voilá, this is a suggestion for you to take your partner to the clouds, with the Lingam Massage and P-SPOT as preliminaries or even only with these massages alone.

Enjoy without moderation 😊

Psalm ANANDA Prem