The Tantra trail and the replica of what is not dual - Attitude! Tantra

The Tantra trail and the replica of what is not dual - Attitude! Tantra

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The fashion comes up from time to time: occasionally someone like Madonna starts to practice yoga and Tantric massage. Now, the Tantra path is often not what is in people's mouths. It's usually what's in their #heart, so it's always worth considering what words we use.

They carry a power to do with them, almost like an “ethereal action”. We live in #darkest times: sometimes even the tone implies a different way of understanding it, and words are weapons used to hurt and cancel each other out.

Internal attitudes and Tantric paradoxes with morals

I've been hitting that key with regard to Attitude! Tantra: the #attitude that one seeks to look, observe and study is always from the skin inward. But don't get me wrong, this post is not about the why of things, but the “how” of things. The idea here is not to incite people to an “external” attitude, but to make them understand the internal attitude towards what is happening outside.

Because if it truly changes, the person will no longer have to worry about more than details about the external behavior: he will already be #synchrony and what is left are fine adjustments.

It's like learning a new language or learning to play music: when you see it, your #psyche already notices new shades of color that you didn't know before. The effort is not in the act, because if it generates an effort, the demand comes at a gallop. In other words, this text is basically a look at what makes your life itself a tantric one: #connection, happiness and joy.

And contrary to the fashionable thinking among some, the idea here is not to write in a patrol tone, even because Tantra looks at the other only to notice what #reverberates within itself. The words here can mean a lot of different things, and that depends a lot on the “#who am I” you are reading. Note that even if it is the same person reading something twice, it would no longer be the same person.

Tantra, after all, is peace and love?

But if I tell you to release your anger in a tantric meditation session where #catharsis occurs, and you suddenly notice that anger has a name and an address, that doesn't mean you're going to ring the bell and pour the anger out on the person. No!

The cathartic process serves for #self-knowledge and for us to realize how much we repress ourselves internally, putting dirt under the rug. The idea with the coming of the tantric therapy session is to make yourself notice what are the aspects that generate #anguish, pain and also what means we have within you to deal with it. Without failing to glimpse the #ecstasies that Tantra has to offer.

Within #Tantra, catharsis is not an end, it is a means of cleansing, a strategy to remove obstacles that impede meditation. At the time of anger, learning is to go through it with everything it has to offer.

And strategy has to do with being better to go through the anger in a #therapeutic time and environment than to brew that feeling and direct it at someone like a bullet. I've heard people say a thousand times that Tantra is “peace and love” and it's real that this kind of #posture can attract some people.

Before the trail, the awakening to something subtle and profound


At first, it is important to study, realize that there are several lines of tantra and see the #opinion of people who study the subject. It may be that one finds divergent Tantras. Note that most of the time the divergence is in how to perform such and such technique or method.

But when we notice that Tantra brings to a person's #life: the perception of the energy of the being. In other words, having the energy to stay in the here and now, with the #internal search of not judging. This does not mean not having discernment, quite the contrary: time gives that kind of wisdom. And that doesn't mean going into effort, if the person has free energy channels, he won't access the effort.

Self-restraint is also repression. It is important that those who are in the #tantric initiation process seek the help of experts. However, it is advisable to take care not to fall into traps: always use self-study to see if this #technique moves you towards a better and fuller life.

Feedback from the processes of desire and unconsciousness


Tantra in any way does not enter into morals. That is, it may be that the person practicing Tantra feels more "horny" on a daily basis, and this #horny can literally manifest itself in more desire to have sex, or that this horny manifests itself in the desire to create art, work, study, meet, travel. In short, Tantra speeds up the process of #awakening and ascending the #fiery energy that everyone has within.

For example, there are 112 #sutras of Shiva, and it is possible to practice 108 of them. No wonder 108 is the number of #yoga, because there are 108 practical ways to get into hyperawareness. 4 of the sutras refer to non-physical #chakras, which means that in this physical body, if you work with the 108 techniques, there will automatically be an impact on the other chakras.

So the way the speech appears ends up being important within Tantra, and the #PNL techniques are interesting to be studied: this is because the mind defines a lot of what is experienced. If someone says “I will try” this, the meaning to the mind is not the same as someone saying “I will do” this. There is a feedback, in the way a person expresses himself, which impacts on what is perceived as #real.

In this case, the “inter”-pretations are #subjective and we almost don't always notice when some self-pity and unnecessary anguish is inflicted on ourselves. How much time passes without us noticing the real #problems.

The ultimate goal of Tantra on the path of self-development


Tantra helps you to unravel the big existential questions in a light and relaxed way: always feel, which is the ultimate goal. And if the person takes the path of self-pity, the sensory device will automatically prevent the path from continuing.

I've also heard that Tantra is elitist, but when I look at the Shiva sutras that lead to a trail, I realize that of all systems, the least elitist is Tantra: so much so that I notice Tantric people in all social classes . When you read the #Shiva Sutras, you realize that the Sutras are about everyday things.

Just go running what's there. The #rules: without the dual, with the sensory, and looking for the most #detached and natural way possible. At first glance, it may seem difficult, but they are accessible to anyone.

The Original Tantra: why is it not important to judge?


In short, the Sutras refer us to everyday things that can be done without major questions. If you go to religions and philosophies, Western and Eastern, you will notice elements of the #Original Tantra of Shiva. It is possible to find elements of Tantra in the words of Jesus: “don't judge and you will not be judged”. This is also tantra: not judging.

Now, after all, if this is the path of Tantra, why are human beings still stumbling around with such basic and primal issues? The ghosts and spirits of morality remain, and that's okay too, because the human being still needs to go through very own processes to #abandon duality.

I would like to make the note that someone can confuse this with #gender: the duality that Tantra deals with is not about gender or sexuality: Tantra presupposes that a person practices one or another technique, on a trail or not. So, naturally you will notice that both genders are #present within each other. Always remember that the #ultimate goal of Tantra is to reach a state of detachment and naturalness.

The emphasis is on #natural, because even someone who says and speaks that he is in full detachment, words already denote: there is attachment in detachment.

So beware of mind games, they are often #paradoxes. Look for balance. For every “no” someone says, there is a Shiva sutra that says yes.

Tantra's path in sexuality: confrontations with morality


The current human morality (even of those in Tantra) can refer to the words: Tantra is not #to have sex. But then you notice Shiva's 48th sutra: "when entering into a sexual act, stay in the fire at the beginning, avoid the splash at the end."

If one were to practice this sutra, one would live the Tantra of Sex and experience a lot of inner change with one's sex; no problem! Now, there are other sutras, about caressing, about breathing, about sounds (mantras).

So the phrase “Tantra is not sex” is correct and wrong at the same time, because hyper-consciousness can come through sex, but it can come in another way too!

Of the current Tantra movement, it is not for nothing that many stay on sexual issues: society represses sex so much, it goes through so much repression and under the cloth, that many people think only about it.

How did this process begin?


The practice at Osho's #ashram in Poona gained notoriety because in short, he put people to meditate, and noticed that many could not do it: they were too busy flirting with each other.

In this, he put people who were in this lust to experience their sexuality fully before moving on to the more subtle. I could! The word got around and many people ended up looking for answers in #sexuality. Yea! Sex has the answers: no wonder that the 1st states of #samadhi (hyper consciousness) were reached in sexual intercourse. And the sexual sutra is so simple: just stay in the #fire from the beginning.

You'll notice that you'll want to stay in the act, that your #jovial age comes to the fore, that you become a #teenager again. Many aspects occur with this practice. But is Tantra sex? Yes and no! In all sutras, the key point is the energy to be activated: the energy of #kundaliní. Without kundaliní there is no meditation, no samadhi.

Nutrition, Tantra and Ayurveda


Less controversial aspects, but dealing with Tantra, and which are generally not seen as Tantra, are in the matter of nutrition: the path is found in being natural. How many #diseases arise due to lack of food awareness. The simple act of chewing food has become a difficulty for many.

It is precisely the act of chewing that is related to #taste. If the person does not even taste and smell the food, he can start his process from there, the act of feeding.

But there are so many nutrition professionals, Indian medicine professionals who deal with #ayurveda (the science of life), that the Tantra of nutrition has gained complexity and lost its naturalness. And this naturalness involves feeling.

The act is so #primal and elemental. The foods that industries serve us are often covered in marketing, but it's not worth wasting time: the best thing is to start your garden naturally. Life is full of small #steps, so take your first step. If it is not possible to grow a small garden, start by buying organic. Finally, the ideal is to start the process as soon as possible: whether chewing, growing or buying.

self-pity


The point is that the self-pity people put on themselves is too great, so in the name of financial abundance, many embrace #suffering without realizing it. For example: the body suffers in #silence when a person spends 8 hours a day sitting in front of a computer. The body was not made to sit all the time, and at one time or another the bill arrives, with illnesses.

Many, even sick people, do not wake up to something more basic: sensoriality. With developed sensitivity, the body no longer accepts certain #behaviors. In the matter of nourishing your body, which has suffered so much, this becomes clear: if you smell the ultra-processed sausage and allow yourself to chew that “food” many times, the person, in a natural and effortless way, will start to #reject it.

When we are faced with what people crave, everything that doesn't make sense to Tantra, whose meaning is to feel, which may seem like a paradox, but following the path is living better. Life itself is a gift and the Here and Now is what exists. Survival issues are minor consequences of being in Tantra and experiencing #abundance.

Untying the self-imposed knots


Tantra is about consciousness, and our #choices occur according to the levels of substances that exist within us. So, to have the best choices for that present moment that hasn't arrived yet, start with eating, start with #attention to your body, start with a stretch compounded with deep and conscious breathing.

“Ah, but if one has money, it's better to go suffer in #Paris”; the point is that for the path of tantra there is no sense in suffering, so between having money and not suffering, the answer is not suffering. This abundance is not just about finances, it is an abundance that embraces more plans of #existence. So many people who are financially abundant but at the same time so lacking in emotional or quality of life aspects.

welcome emotions


For those who have gone through and completed the process of being and being, there will no longer be the need to “have to” be this or that. The act of #embracing emotions is something different from submitting them to your control. Convictions and passions are no longer in the spotlight. Life operates by itself and the need for the #present becomes immediate. There are tantric people who don't know they are tantric.

These beginnings are free of charge, and as you develop that, you will reap the rewards in the #process itself. Who told you you can't? Tantra says you can! The here and now is your beginning and your end.

And also those who claim to be tantric but are attached to #morals, albeit in a subtle way. The processes that make themselves felt are part of a whole; but it is no use getting into any art of “fighting”. If a person enters the struggle, he is still far from the #redemption process that is typical of Tantra. And that's okay too, everyone will have their own inner process.

Communication as a Trail of Subtle Tantra


But when one develops within Tantra, one realizes the #root of the offense: communication currently has many potentials for gratuitous offense on an endless trail. Generation shocks, someone says an “A” and there is already a big commotion. Saying “A” or saying “B” still has less weight than saying “C”. But as the #dimension of people's lives is in the mental, what is said has gained great weight.

And that's why the way you say anything can be many times more #relevant than what you do. Even if what is done is reprehensible, the sayings have become reprehensible.

But Tantra does not condemn. The Shiva Sutra says: #Be the same not so much to a friend as to a stranger. This is something deeply personal: what are you like with someone you know? And how are you with someone you've never seen in your life?

The "how" is more important than the "what"


There is a certain need to understand yourself within Tantra, and for that there is an #internal attitude towards your most intimate aspects of life: Tantra is an experience that happens through a method, a “how”.

It doesn't matter where you go, but the “how” you get there will make the most brutal and subtlest difference. So there is a certain need for those who talk too much #to learn to listen, and for those who listen too much, to learn to talk.

Likewise, the process of Tantra takes place in terms of social relations: whoever sees himself for now with an oppressed heart, must also get out of the yoke of himself. The idea is to get out of #patrol, in addition to it, I refer carefully to auto patrol.

The Tantra Trail: the world that goes around


Because Tantra takes away the concept of good and evil. The idea is what favors your life, in full. If that's good or if that's bad, that's another 500s.

However, even though how this state arrives, it may seem subtle. It is very real, because Tantra techniques revolve around everything that is #real. Even if you are a critic of yourself.

Tantra helps you to get rid of your own criticisms, it targets the mind and makes the feeling of the heart subtle and sweet. The search is for your feeling. As the Sutra says: 'change that consumes change'; you don't fight anger with temperance.

Difference between Pantanjali Yoga and Shiva Tantra


And here we have a divergence between the path of Tantra of Shiva and Yoga of Patanjali. Patanjali says that you fight thoughts as you cultivate their opposites. In Shiva Tantra it is not like that: only anger can consume anger, and only sadness can consume sadness, and so on.

When you look for an opposite thinking, that feeling that you want " fight “You can create the illusion that you are dealing with him. This is repression, or rather self-repression that takes place in a very refined way.

This is not about being #nihilist, about denying what goes on inside you. The truth is, you came to experience this finite existence. If this, then not that, and therefore, just stop dodging living: use the spark to ignite your emotion.

Tantric Therapy and Eastern and Western Tantra


In tantric therapy, this is what happens: because generally those who went through the transformation of Tantra know that #opposites are, in fact, mind games. From our #literature, we find Tantra in many examples.

Thus, it is sometimes easier to develop within Tantra without major pre-tensions; how to cultivate the habit of reading books with complex narratives, or cultivate the habit of developing skill in the arts.

There are many oppressions people are used to, but the breathing of the spirit is still to be found in the east. The West is still materialistic. And that's okay too, at some point matter meets spirit. The point is that dialectic of good and evil makes everything more difficult: the mind becomes a maze of dualities and it is easy to get lost.

That said, it's not worth playing wild games either, the wild turns out to be a force, but you can't reach it. The savage hasn't existed for more than scenic memory can tell. There is no such thing as a savagery tactic, and that would be just another way to get lost.

In addition, there is no point in trying to escape to the top of the mountain: the masks are falling, little by little, from all those who worship themselves as enlightened or illuminators.

Tantra's path in the art world


Doing is ahead of thinking: thus, fleeing from what one feels, only postpones the greater evil of duality; she continues to #feed herself. It is not enough to abdicate effort, to be water and flow along with the gravity of what is dense.

It is the form that really matters, and in this regard, as soon as people understand that the way they already do it is a unique and #natural way and that it is from it that one must move forward on the path of development. to you.

In other words, becoming #poet and becoming wisdom at the same time. Integrate their opposites in such a way as to unite your consciousness and embrace such rich and abundant matter. What is lost with good and evil is what is gained in terms of power: the narrative uses good and evil to give #power, whether to the one who counts or to the one who intends to be a 'victim'.

The balcony of traversing the Tantra trail and the dual games


That's where Tantra's “balcony” on the liberation trail lives: stop wasting time with such dual #games, because it's not worth it. If a Tantra practitioner embraces the dual, it means they have not let go of their lust for power, and the path towards liberation has not yet been embraced.

And that's okay too, because matter games are fun for a #time (sometimes more than a lifetime). The path of Tantra is to find the power in redemption and the #flow of what is easiest. Not proud of any #fights.

Matter shows you what is restricted, so learning to deal with the restricted is something you must delve into, and then access the dimension of what is abundant. That's because it's from the #floor that someone leans on to get up and rise to heights.

The cult of “settle your life” in 1 second, internet and the Tantra trail


It's the internet that is full of “get your life right now” slogans. Whoever simply abstracts so much info is good: the mind gets #confused and generates a lot of side effects. It's not so easy to distill yourself with this digital process. And it's okay too if you get lost: you want a more tantric phrase than the one from #Nietszche in Assim Falava Zarathustra: “you have to get lost to find yourself; how to renew without first turning to ashes?

What is most important in this case is to understand yourself, to do a self-study. And it may sound simple, but this task is not so easy. The beginning of #sin is hidden in ignorance: it is easier to want it without wanting it. Anyway, the problem is not what is dual per se: there are so many #stories of good and bad that make us fall out of our chair. The problem is to carry this reality from the dual narrative to life.

And from there, #suffering with life that is much more complex and translates into terms of life energy. The progression is what you understand is the problem, which starts with the question, not the answer. So, I only act the fact that the quest has a beginning, a middle and an end, so that you can banish it. The big #problems. But after all, what are these big problems?

The processes of dichotomizing reality and verifying achievement


Situation analysis tends to dichotomize processes, because it's easier to deal with #script that way. The point is that the understanding of non-dual life enters a dimension of love and acceptance that the dual does not, because it feeds on the fight, the good guy and the bad guy.

Issues such as abuses always come up in the #media, whether moral, sexual or power. And within the logo of the fight, the dual being, with right and wrong, the ring is already set up, with popcorn and everything else.

Now, if #deus is the absolute, then the devil could be nothing but a part of god, and free will in reality is an illusion: there is no such thing, that is, the succession of facts that is transformed little by little in the future, it has already occurred.

Dual systems, their abstraction and the expansion of consciousness


So systems are more important because they put programming to work according to what their own #design is. Acceptance comes to the point of no effort: what you do naturally. Victory and defeat are not part of what is called life, because entering the #dark abyss can be part of a thorough process; transforming yourself occurs when you want to notice yourself in the process.

Therefore, the #shape is more important than the object. Impression is what is done on a sheet of paper, impressed is the person who let himself go to observe what was left in his place of ascension. So your words and your actions matter. The dimension in which they act is what makes the #difference.

Originally published in https://attitudetantra.com on May 6, 2021

Deva Bebaak (Bren)
The first tantric massage that I received made me feel integrated into the world for several consecutive days: an incredible feeling of union (yoga) with humanity and the synchronicity of existence. From then on I decided to follow the Therapeutic Training trail to be able to take [...]

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