Using vibrators for a more pleasurable sex life
posted by Deva Harischandra Jessica
There is a huge range of vibrators on the market, several models with many possibilities of use and functions. It is technology helping to expand our discoveries about sexuality and contributing to a more pleasurable life in several aspects.
Vibrators are excellent tools for exploring your own body and also in moments of exchanging pleasure with another person(s). They are often responsible for elevating our feelings of pleasure to levels we never imagined possible.
It can still be a taboo for many men and women, but with great affection and respect for yourself, I believe that using vibrators is an experience that is worth allowing yourself, breaking with fears and prejudices. In particular, I recommend the ones that can be used on the outside of the yoni. Explore the pleasure of this region without haste, lightly touching the vibrator on the side of the yoni, getting closer and closer to the outer lip, and very slowly bringing it closer to the glans of the clitoris, stimulating it from the side and not positioning it directly on the pearl clitoris, which can be a very strong stimulus and therefore, at times, uncomfortable. On the side it is possible that it is much more pleasant.
In this way, the use of the vibrator can be associated with the penetration of fingers or the partner's lingam, achieving very high levels of pleasure by stimulating the G-spot and the external part of the clitoris simultaneously.
It is still common that many men do not see vibrators with good eyes, as if they were their competitors, or as if, when proposing to use a vibrator, the partner was saying that he is not able to provide the pleasure she wants, they end up feeling inadequate. I believe that there are only gains in breaking away from this vision and perceiving him as a great ally.
Vibrators will never be able to replace the sensations that an exchange between human beings can provide, but they can contribute in an extremely rich, pleasant way and make all the difference in exchanges of pleasure. A partner who knows how to use vibrators has a wonderful differential.
In addition, there are vibrators that can be used in the lingam, they are capable of provoking immensely pleasurable sensations for men. Anyone who believes that they are only usable in the female body is wrong.
It is important to make it clear that, although vibrators are wonderful for providing us with countless possibilities of delicious sensations, we should not condition our pleasure on using them.
Our body is capable of feeling very intense and pleasurable orgasms. If we condition our pleasure to the use of vibrators, we end up, in a way, by anesthetizing our sensitivity, needing less and less subtle stimuli. Therefore, the vibrator can be sensational, but it is important to continue stimulating and having pleasurable relationships without using it too. Perceiving it as another possibility and not as a necessary way to have sexual pleasure.
For those who haven't used it yet, I believe it's worth investing in models with a lighter vibration and starting to experience new sensations in the body, and increasingly allowing yourself to explore and dare.
For everyone, I recommend that you take a free course in tantric massage, to learn how to use the technique in your personal life, learn ways to use vibrators, and incredibly increase the intensity of pleasure and connection in relationships.