Life and forms in our body

Life produces forms. These forms are part of an organizational process that embodies emotions, thoughts and experiences, providing them with a structure. This structure, in turn, orders the events of existence. The shapes show the process of a protoplasmic history that moves towards a personal human form - conception, embryological development and structures of childhood, adolescence and adult life.

Later on, the person's form will be shaped by internal and external experiences of birth, growth, differentiation, relationship, mating, reproduction, work, problem solving and death. Throughout this process, the shape is impressed by the challenges and tensions of existence. The human form is marked by love and disappointments.

From the point of view of the therapeutic process, life is a succession of forms, which move more or less as in a film. When the movement slows down, we can notice the changes that happen in an emotional posture from one moment to the next. The responses of each person to the world characterize it, creating its unique emotional form, thus giving rise to individual consciousness. The human community becomes the dance of forms of human interaction. The human form is basically shaped. Life's challenges and individual responses create a way of expressing feelings of excitement, assertion, love, care and sexuality. - Stanley Keleman

The need to be important is the emotional force behind much of our behavior. Life is driven by the desire to succeed. We want our life to matter. We have our own idea of ​​what it means to be important, and we work hard to achieve our goals. Feeling loved increases our sense of importance. Love is not our only emotional need, among the basic needs are security, self-esteem and importance. Love is related to all of them.

Exercising: ask yourself how you can be better today, regardless of the attitude of the other. Keep watching and looking for more on how to be treated in a way that you feel loved, safe and important to everyone in your environment. Try putting it into practice with others and observe how it feels to give that feeling to others and yourself.