AAAAI, MY HEART ...

It hurts me (a lot), but I'm not sure where ...

The quality of our childhood determines the type of adult we will be and / or are. All the influences actively placed on us until at least our 7 years of age, will guide us in a healthy way or not in the (in) conscious conduct of our life. And the main agent of these changes are our first social institutions, such as family, school, friends and groups to which we belong, the main one being our family core forming part of our personality.

There is a diverse pantone of emotional pain that can cause deep wounds in the mind, fixing a great belief, in the body, locking the neuro musculature, or in the spirit, preventing us from experiencing what is destined to us in a deeper way by the spirit.

When we experience rejection we are faced with the neglect of our own interior. And there are many rejection systems, which can come from family, colleagues, friends or even from the parents themselves, the feeling of not being well liked or loved can endure into adulthood and always brings with it the behavior of becoming a closed person, isolating himself from his inner world, feeling that he does not deserve acceptance and that he is not worthy of affection or even understanding.

Injustice arises from authoritarianism or even coldness in the care environment of this developing child and the contours of a creation with extreme demands or even this distance from the merits acquired by that child brings a feeling of helplessness and worthlessness. Consequently, this future adult will be a fanatic for order and perfectionism, with extreme mental rigidity and active mistrust, having the maximum of inflexibility with him, as well as the inability to make assertive decisions.

When we have the wound of abandonment, our worst enemy will be loneliness. She will abandon her projects, love partners, work or any part of life with someone to share her journey with. The maxim of this emotional holiday is "I will leave before you go" feeling without any support, in addition to extreme rigidity in the form of others who share some experience with you, outraging the flexibility of relationships, acts such as going back on a decision or to work on maintaining the relationship established, not to mention the barriers of physical access and affection.

Being humiliated either through criticism or lack of support, devaluing his performance, presence or even his learning as something inconsiderable, insufficient or even as being incapable, we destroy this child in his sense of self-esteem making this child a little tyrant, a great dependent and selfish, having as a defense mechanism the humiliation of everyone around him as a defense. For freedom from this wound we need to work on independence and understanding our real needs.

Faced with betrayal, we become a future controller and everything works under our own command. Because their parents have not kept their promises, they become "enemies" who live within the very home to which she, the child, develops, making her feel unworthy of promises that do. The justification of the controlling adult is her strong personality and her commanding voice, when in fact she is a great dictator. They justify their mistakes with primacy and the great solution here is to know yourself to learn to be alone and to delegate functions in a healthy way.

And what does all this have to do with Tantra? Look, my eternal youth, an inner child welcomed and emancipated from all his emotional wounds, he lives life and his emotions fully. Emotional healing requires a lot. It takes courage, self-development and knowledge, a lot of research to understand where and at what time all these lacerations may have been caused, so that the autopilot of your life is disabled and finally you ensure a smooth and conscious trip.

Tantra is extremely welcoming, inclusive, receptive, and will take you against all the unfilled holes in your existence, bringing you into the presence of body, heart, mind and soul. I am not going to guarantee you that it doesn't hurt, but there is no other path to completeness and true love that does not demand from you who you really are and that is beyond the experiences you have undergone since your existential beginnings.

A blessed heart, he has attentive, caring and understanding eyes before everything and everyone, towards you. Tantra as a healing tool promotes an accelerating vortex that uses your own vital energy as a tool for recovering yourself, turning you to the center of your primordial energy, far from what was built around you barring you from the real loving surroundings of their experiences. And when you are in fact, the freedom to be will be granted without any difficulty and everything you have experienced will become remembrance and memory, never pattern or repetition.