Some considerations about sex

Sex is still a subject treated as a huge taboo for the vast majority of people. It is still common an education that makes people ashamed, feel guilty and feel various blocks in relation to this subject.

The pornographic industry still ends up serving as a reference to men and women on how they should relate sexually, greatly neglecting our capacity for pleasure and connection between partners.

Even today people talk about loss of virginity for women, as if we were losing a great virtue instead of starting our sex life. Many times men are still required to start their sexual life without having a real desire to do so, as if it were an obligation to fulfill.

Very young girls still believe that to be successful in life is to get married and be a wife who pleases her husband in every way so that he doesn't leave her for another or betray her for his own insufficiency. And from an early age they are encouraged to see women as enemies, compare and blame themselves in this sense.

Many people still end up growing up with the idea that sex is something promiscuous, wrong, dirty, ugly, a source of sin and not a source of pleasure, connection, self-knowledge, love, transcendence, the source of the life that it is. It fails to understand that we are the ones who use it in one way or another.

We still talk with so little quality about this important part that influences all other areas of our life.

I've also seen sex in a very distorted way in my life, I've neglected my own pleasure a lot, I've performed, I've faked orgasm, I've been too lazy to have sex over the years of the same relationship, I've been very ashamed of my body, to touch myself and to feel and show pleasure... Knowing tantra was a watershed in my life, and today, I see sex in a much clearer way, with beauty, as part of self-care, a source of connection and pleasure between bodies and souls, as a possibility of unique and transcendental energy exchange, a meditation tool.

It's strange for me, as it is for many people, to talk about really pleasurable sex, lasting orgasms that nourish energetically, in an open, natural and extremely useful way for people's lives, among adults, can be shocking and seen with bad eyes by many people. I consider it a matter of public utility, health, well-being, self-knowledge, growth and personal development.

Having experienced it as a therapeutic process, enjoying so many benefits, using the technique in my personal life and working today with the Deva Nishok method of tantric massage, through sessions and courses, gives me the dimension of how important all this is, how much is capable of transforming lives in countless positive aspects and how far we still need to advance in this matter.

I consider the Deva Nishok method to be a great gift that life has presented to me. And it is there available to everyone who is open to knowing it, experiencing it and benefiting from it.

There is still a large number of people who fail to perceive the grandeur of work and seek it as a possibility for sexual satisfaction. But there are also a large number of people who, by allowing themselves to experience tantric therapy, naturally manage not only to understand, but to feel its dimension.

More and more I see people who look for it very consciously and find much more than they thought they were looking for.

Decent, honest work that was transformative and liberating for countless people and can be for you too. Look for a therapist accredited to Metamorfose Network if it makes sense to you and enjoy the most diverse possibilities of benefits and growth that the technique can offer in your life and in your relationships.