Love X Passion
posted by Agni Maharani (Tina)
Both are strong and distinct feelings, many people get confused and mismanage the sensations. In this text I will help you identify each of them.
Passion is impulse, projection on the other of those imaginary fantasies, we cannot look at the other as he truly is, we let ourselves be carried away by emotion and the blindness of passion. The physical shape, beauty, good mood, smile and look are factors that attract the person in love. She basically believes in love at first sight.
Love is more reason, falling apart that love at first sight does not exist. You see the other beyond appearance, create admiration, exalt qualities, deal with defects and have a projection of life with this person. A couple who love each other, even when they go through fights and adversity, use situations to improve the relationship, they don't give up easy.
A characteristic of passion is how it begins and ends, and in most cases it is like a storm, it is fleeting, it usually does damage, but it ends quickly. Passion can turn into love, it needs maturity and patience from both within the relationship.
Love is deep and complex, it needs time, it needs to be watered, it develops little by little. To love is to support the other unconditionally, giving up what I find boring to please and see the smile of the one I love, love lives on dialogue, consensus and understanding.
Passion most of the time has a lot of fight, difficulty in adapting to the other's way, because the projection is latent and over time you realize how the other behaves and get frustrated for not being able to shape or control your way.
What sustains passion? Usually sex, carnal contact is very intense and has a perfect fit.
What sustains love? The desire to be happy next to the loved one, the desire to care for and conquer the most audacious goals.
Of all that has been mentioned, it is worth remembering the importance of reciprocity in relationships, so it is more likely that it will remain, otherwise it will become unbalanced and whoever is with you will not know how to receive all the love and affection that you can provide.
For both feelings it is also important to know how to say goodbye, to release the flow if necessary.