Net Loves

It seems that it is increasingly difficult to relate lovingly. According to Zygmunt Bauman, we are living in the era of liquid loves, where love has become a product, which can be discarded at any time to be replaced by another one, which is supposed to bring more satisfaction.

Have you ever felt that way? So, answer me: are you the part that discards or is discarded?
Regardless of which side you most identify with, I have observed one point in common (on both sides): the superficiality of relationships.

We grew up and are educated in a highly competitive society. From an early age, we are encouraged to be the best student, the best professional, the best athlete. All this pressure, it ends up making us hide our weaknesses, pains, fears, and we end up doing it even with the people with whom we love ourselves. It is as if we cannot show who we really are. There is also the other side, when someone (finally) appears vulnerable, we end up seeing weakness in that person, and unconsciously, we can start to see him with inferiority, not being our height, and consequently, not deserving of our attention and relationship.

Have you ever stopped to assess how vulnerable you are to others? And how much are you willing to accept and accept the vulnerability of the other? Could this help to build a more solid relationship based on who we really are?

Tantra teaches us to see ourselves as we really are, and when we do, we no longer wear that old social armor. We naturally come to accept and demonstrate our weaknesses. When we are unarmed, we become more empathetic, and we look deeply into each other. Being tantric is much more than chasing incredible orgasms. It is about looking at and embracing the reality of who we are. In acceptance there is surrender, and in surrender there is the solidity of a concrete, human and real love. Let's love each other?