female anorgasmia

It is considered a sexual dysfunction, when the woman cannot have orgasms in any way. Not even how much she has connection with her partner and receives stimulation for long enough. These stimuli, which would organically provoke orgasms, without her having any physical issue that would prevent her from feeling them.

There are many issues to consider:

• If you've never felt an orgasm.

• Have you ever felt it at some point in your life and then stopped feeling it.

• If in addition to not feeling orgasms, you don't feel any other type of pleasure during sexual intercourse.

• If you only feel orgasms with clitoral stimulation.

• If you only feel orgasms with G-spot stimulation.

• If you feel desire naturally, or if you feel desire when stimulated only, or if you never feel it.

• If you have arousal and increase it when stimulated.

• Enjoy masturbation.

• If you have been regularly seeing a gynecologist and monitoring your hormone levels and general health.

• How is your relationship with your own body?

• If you accept yourself and have self-esteem.

• What is the current view on the idea of ​​sex and sexuality, and what is your life history in relation to your values ​​and beliefs on the subject...

All these questions are relevant to the direction of the work: the breathing exercises and body techniques that will be used.

If the woman has no libido, for example, the direction will be towards awakening the body. The entire intervention of initial massages will be a work of developing the feeling. Sensitive Massage can help a lot to bring you the feeling that you are alive, awaken the body's bioelectricity, bring sensuality, bring sexual energy to the whole body, generating new neural synapses of permission, delivery, stimulating the body and waking up it for the experience of pleasure.

As for a person who has a lot of libido, has excitement, but does not feel orgasms, the work is directed with other exercises, bodywork and more specific massage, working the yoni and the G-spot.

Each case, each body and each life story is unique, and this needs to be taken into account. The work associated with psychotherapy is very important. In this case, not analytically, but for a greater opening to the release of psycho-emotional content linked to these issues, the more you talk, the more you release and integrate in a natural way.

Releasing toxic contents through speech, associated with bodily practices, we can access tools to transform our behaviors. When we release contents and emotions, thoughts and feelings change. The more we talk, the more internal space we release and re-elaborate feelings and thoughts. And by associating it with work on the body, we develop new behaviors from that.

It is important to be clear that there is no way to know the exact time that a person who is not experiencing orgasms begins to experience them when seeking help in tantric therapy. Or even if you're going to feel them. Each process is unique.

Generally, responses with working through tantric massage are quick. But it's very relative. Sometimes, the woman brings conditioning and a belief system built and internalized for many years, and, to deconstruct and re-signify, maybe it takes a little more time. And there are cases in which, in a single session, it is already possible to have extremely positive results, which are progressively increasing in a development process.

It is necessary to look at each case with love, with acceptance, calmly and with the specifics of each one. Allow yourself to live the process. But looking at it, recognizing it and seeking therapy to work on it is a great first step.

If you have never felt, or are not experiencing, orgasms at this point in your life, tantric therapy can be an incredible possibility to work on this issue.

If you want to talk about it or schedule an appointment, I'm available.