Sexual Blockages: What Are They and How Can They Be Overcome? Understand!

Sexual blocks can arise for a number of reasons. The truth is that they often relate to emotional issues, which can appear at any stage of a person's life.

Many women and men suffer from these blocks without even realizing it. Consequently, they become incapable of enjoying pleasures together.

In addition, sexual blocks also affect other segments, such as relationships with family, friends and work performance.

In more extreme cases, the individual develops a withdrawn personality, with outbursts of anger and other emotional outbursts.

Fortunately, there are ways to deal with this problem. Tantra is one of the alternative therapeutic techniques that can help. Want to understand more? Follow next!

After all, what are sexual blocks?

Sexual blocks are feelings of resistance or any other "force" that hinders the couple's sexual experience. It is worth noting that these blocks do not necessarily have to do with a lack of libido or sexual desire.

Generally, they are related to a sentimental block, in which it prevents partners, or the individual, from being able to express their sexuality at will.

From the point of view of Tantra, our vital energy—orgastic energy—flows naturally in our organism. Whenever we feel motivated, vibrant and joyful about certain things, it means that this energy is flowing freely.

However, as soon as this energy encounters some resistance, we feel frustrated, distant, angry, and depressed. And this directly impacts the health and quality of sex life.

What can cause sexual blocks?

Before we talk about mental block and how to treat it — as it is linked to sexual blocks — we are going to show you the main causes of sexual resistance.

The causes that come to mind most often are those that stem from traumatic experiences, such as emotional or physical abuse. However, there are other factors that cause sexual blockages:

• fears: our worries can come true. When we don't express our desires for lack of dialogue, such repressed feelings can turn into future blocks;

• social conditioning: in a society full of sexual taboos, it is common to grow up with limiting beliefs, which can disrupt the flow of individual sexual energy;

• fault: whenever we accept limiting beliefs as truths, guilt is created. Such a feeling is also responsible for many of the sexual blocks faced in adult life;

• self-judgment: although external impacts already cause damage, internal pressure (made by ourselves) can be the most harmful. When we judge our natural sexual behavior to be incorrect, it generates other future blocks;

• trauma: as we said above, traumas are also largely responsible for blockages. Suffered violence, psychological abuse and other traumatic experiences negatively impact sexual energy;

• unwanted sexual intercourse: having unwilling sex can also generate future blocks. The sexual experience must be enjoyed by all involved; it should be a source of joy, connection and complicity. Doing it unwillingly is a full plate to associate the act with something negative.

The relationship between blockages and sexual disorders

We showed you just above that emotional issues, such as trauma, are largely responsible for sexual blocks. When left untreated and circumvented, these blocks can lead to serious sexual disorders.

Women who have suffered trauma after the first time, for example, tend to develop a certain resistance to having new sexual experiences. Some feel discomfort, pain during the act and cannot feel pleasure in the relationship.

Another factor linked to blockages and sexual disorders is the upbringing received on the subject. People who see sex as something impure and sinful are unlikely to have a healthy relationship with it.

There are cases of men, for example, who are unable to have sex with their partners, as they believe that the act is promiscuous and can only be performed in brothels. Whenever situations like this arise, it is important to seek professional help.

How to identify a sexual block?

Identifying emotional love block is not always easy. A person who has suffered from trauma and other limiting conditions in relation to sex and its related issues, has psychological and even physical symptoms. They are:

• feeling of guilt for expressing sexuality;

• disgust with oneself after the relationship, even if consented;

• anxiety about issues related to sex;

• repression of sexual memories and behaviors;

• mistrust, aggression and exacerbated reactions to everyday situations.

What to do to remedy a sexual blockage?

The first step is to seek professional help. Traditional and alternative therapies can help to deal with physical and psychological sexual traumas and blocks. On this occasion, the support of close people is important, especially spouses.

Thus, the individual will feel more comfortable talking about their repressed feelings. Anyway, it's important:

• recognize the problem: understand that feeling resistance to sex is not healthy;

• seek treatment: seek specialized help from traditional and alternative therapies, such as Tantra;

• Have patience: no “cure” process has immediate results. Letting go of any limiting beliefs takes time;

• keep communication: having an open and truthful dialogue with partners is critical to successful treatment. Both parties must be present to face the period;

• avoid setting deadlines: this point is related to that of patience. There is no fixed deadline for a given issue to be resolved. This will only cause more frustrations and problems.

How can Tantra help with sexual blocks?

As we said around here, Tantra sees sexuality as the vital energy of our body. In this way, tantric massage therapy is also indicated to treat sexual blockages in a deeper way.

Before leaving for the massage, the individual and the therapist talk to strengthen ties and generate more trust. In fact, many people can identify the origin of their blockages in tantric sessions.

With an highly specialized professional, it is possible to have the necessary support to heal this wound.

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Conclusion

That was our information about sexual blocks. As you have seen here, there are numerous causes of these blocks, which have their origin in traumatic experiences and negative feelings related to sex and sexuality.

To remedy them, it is important to have specialized help, such as Tantra practices, which study the vital energy of human beings in a profound way.