Lacks, desires and attachments, how to work this in a healthy and effective way?

Have I put myself in the place of the interactor and tried to understand what moves him to come to do a session? Some lack of affection as a motivator. Others have the desire for ardent sex for anyone and everyone. Others the attachment to time, the relationship, to a status of "husband", "wife". Some come and spend years analyzing it in psychotherapy until they identify it, but here comes the question: "And what to do with it?"

When I looked for tantric therapy 7 years ago, I was looking to find myself, to heal myself, to heal the mind-boggling anxiety that hit my mind, to treat the premature ejaculation that came and brought more and more dissatisfaction to sex in the relationship. I realized that I was not the only one who felt this. According to research, premature ejaculation affects 3 out of 10 healthy men. I realized that this is more common than you think, but it is a silent pain.

Just as I came to try to address my issues, other people see to try to address that sick need of wanting to fill that existential void in the chest with someone. In my walk, I realized that this search would be frustrated and that the person would not actually fill what he wanted, but fill a void with more emptiness if he did not search for the right path.

We live in a patriarchal, repressive society that encourages men in northeastern Brazil to spread: “men don't cry!” This creates repression. When there is a desire for something related to sexuality, it generates repression and frustration. This repression can generate aggression or more repression for third parties.

Often a scenario, a relationship, a context is not good. Why? There, you can often have an attachment to something. The same attachment that generates “taking something” is also the limiting factor to evolution. Attachment is associated with an unconscious belief in the scarcity that I lack something, I can be without something, that one day I will lack. When this attachment is in the relationship, the same relationship is not good. When this attachment is to the professional, the person may have dissatisfaction at work or job. When this attachment is in household objects, financial life is neither legal nor healthy.

And what does all this that has been said have to do with each other? Within the energy understanding, there are chakras that are energy centers. We have hundreds of energy centers in the body. The main 7 are along the column.

The base chakra (red color) is the chakra associated with material energy, earth energy, sexuality energy. All these emotional contents such as attachments, cravings and attachments are associated with the base chakra in imbalance or in excess, or insufficient or oscillating between one pole and another.

It is known that when this basic chakra is unbalanced, it generates material problems such as sexual dysfunction, impotence, premature ejaculation or excess libido. Active meditations as well as tantric massage can be an alternative to treat these emotional contents in a direct, real and practical way.

Look for a serious tantric therapist with training in the field and with experience to help you and your affective relationship, your profession, your finances (and financial life) can take a quantum leap in evolution.