How could I do this?

How many times do we look back and ask ourselves, "How could I do this?"

I invite you to close your eyes right now, access your memories and ask this question: "What things in life have I done that I can't understand how I was able to do?"

Get into unnecessary discussions that suck our energies.

Die of jealousy for someone.

Wanting to deprive the other of enjoying their freedom.

Do not accept yourself.

Hate your own body.

Thinking that your attitudes are going to change people and judging that the change you want is better for them.

Be rude for free.

Wishing the other to go wrong.

Be vindictive.

Humiliate someone.

If you think better than the other.

Compare yourself all the time.

Demand perfection from yourself and others.

Destroy someone with words and still feel superior for it.

Attack.

Want to win in the scream.

Use Somebody.

Benefit immorally.

Playing with someone's feelings.

Have no empathy at all.

Be prejudiced.

Finding it natural to destroy the environment.

Judge and condemn people.

Charge other people to act like you.

Decrease in relation to others.

Humble yourself.

Accept less than you deserve.

Carrying blame or hurt for years or decades.

Neglect your own pleasure.

Repress yourself and repress other people.

Live waiting for Friday to arrive.

Believing that life is paying bills and watching television.

Give value only by having and not by being.

Be corrupt.

Don't accept yourself.

Kill yourself by taking care of others and not taking care of yourself.

Being overwhelmed with everyone's problems.

Not knowing how to say no.

Live full of repressed feelings because you don't know how to express them and believe that you have to hide them even from yourself.

Swallow cries.

Do not show love for the people you love.

Pretend orgasms ...

There is an immeasurable list of things that we can look back on and ask ourselves, "How could I do this?"

It is not to blame yourself, to hurt yourself, but to observe how good it is to have become aware that you can no longer do that.

It's nice to know that it's okay. Let us be grateful to be able to look back and know that naturally, without the slightest effort, today, we can no longer act in the same way. This is growth. Be happy for you! Celebrate! Famous! We do not need to mourn for a place to which we no longer belong.

At the same time, as we grow a little, when we raise a crucible our level of consciousness, it seems that we erase from memory how much we have already made mistakes and judge the other without thinking.

We look at the attitudes of others, sometimes we squirm and shout, "How can you do that?"

Perhaps he can because he is still at a level of consciousness that allows him to do so. He can still ...

We have a little more empathy and if we can help, and the other person accepts our help, great. May we extend our hand. But if the person refuses, that's fine too. We are all on the same walk. We go and get back on the road all the time. We went up and down. We fall and rise. Therefore, when looking at the walk of others, let us be empathetic and not judges.

Certainly throughout our life we ​​will still often look back and ask ourselves again, and again, and again ... "How could I do that?"

It's part of it. We are growing. The search is individual and internal. It's choice. May we look at each other with more love, understand that not everyone has the same vision as us. That there are no absolute truths, but different views on the same point.

May we continue to help each other, contributing with our talents and seeing ourselves more and more as one, pieces of the same being. So, who knows, everyone's journey will become lighter and more welcoming?

Let's go together!