How have you dealt with your feminine, your sexuality and your self-love?

For years, we women have lost the connection with our feminine and the healthy way of relating sexually. Many problems in sexual relations are linked to the way we treat ourselves and how we are treated within the relationship. Without care, respect, there is no health.

In society we are taught to serve the man, always prioritizing the pleasure of the masculine, even though it seems an old-fashioned idea, it is still very rooted in our patriarchal and repressive society. Sex time, preferences are often defined by male pleasure. There is still a tendency in which women leave pleasure aside to serve man's pleasure and need. We often allow ourselves to have sex without pleasure or pain, a position of submission in order not to displease the partner.

A sensation present in most women is the feeling of not feeling good enough, whether in bed as a partner, taking care of the children, carrying out a project or work that they so desire, consequently comes the feeling of not feeling worthy of feeling pleasure, to carry out your projects, to feel authentic and to be able to express what is truly within your feminine soul.

Revisiting Beliefs

Starting to reflect and observe what beliefs may be contributing to this type of self-sabotaging mechanism. Belief is a mental process, it represents that you believe in something or the possibility of something and can be acquired throughout our life.

You can experiment by answering these questions:

Do I feel good enough?

What beliefs do I have about me?

What do I think about sex? Because it hurts? Does it burn?

Do I feel safe being myself?

Am I respecting myself?

Is sexual intercourse in line with my pleasure?

Portal of Life.

Our vagina or yoni (portal of life in Sanskrit) has a direct connection with our emotions, inside the uterus is recorded all the emotional contents that we experience throughout life, regardless of the quality of these contents and this reflects exactly how we feel in the day the day. Becoming aware of yourself, your body, what you feel and mobilize is a path to self-transformation, in addition to avoiding gynecological disorders such as candidiasis, endometriosis, polycystic ovary, vaginismus, pain in sexual intercourse.

When we allow ourselves to work on self-love and respect for our feminine, this is part of healing. We were taught to serve others and to let go of our pleasure. We were also taught to silence ourselves: close your legs, girl! Take your hand off there. Young lady doesn't do that. These are phrases and moments that are registered in our unconscious causing great wounds in adulthood, and we become aware of this by realizing how to relate to the other or a specific event arouses sensations and emotions that are not so unknown, but you do not understand why that whirlwind is happening.

Lapidating a new being.

If you identify with something I mentioned in this text, know that it is possible to transform and make room for the pleasure and enjoyment of living. We were born to express sexuality and the feminine in an authentic way, if you feel that this was lost at some point in your life, know that it is possible to rescue this lightness. Life always invites us to change, to get to know something new! Through body therapies, psychotherapy, thetahealing among other techniques, a new world unfolds in front of us.

On the 27th of March I will be offering an experience called The Cosmic Uterus in Brasilia, an exclusive experience for women who wish to rescue their potency and creative energy, who wish to connect with their pleasure! Know that you can count on me on this journey to experience, online or face-to-face service.