Development of Sexuality Among the Couple

The sexual relations between the couple, over time, become monotonous, sometimes cold, with the passage of time one of the parties or both distance themselves from sexual pleasure and channel energy to other activities, leaving sexuality in the relationship aside. The part that feels desires and keeps the energy high keeps looking for a way to satisfy itself, usually with masturbation, this becomes an addiction, and wastes vital energy. Even if he masturbates frequently, he will never feel satisfaction. The mental state of the person who masturbates is connected in pornography, which distances him from the state of presence with his own body, with real pleasure. Over time, this person develops sexual dysfunctions (such as premature ejaculation) disconnects from pleasure, from feeling every movement, every detail of the sensations that are being activated. This body is conditioned, to the touch and immediately to the enjoyment ... or ejaculation ... because it often received this command, instead of touching to feel and surrender. Some other people have difficulties in feeling pleasure in the genital organ due to excessive stimuli, here comes the difficulty of erection during penetration, and in the woman the clitoris little or not at all swollen.

It is of utmost importance that the couple develop together, so that they continue in harmony with the union. Tantric massage is an excellent tool for this development, the individual sessions and the course for couples.

The part that feels desires needs to respect the other part with low sexual energy, not invading. And the part with low energy needs to develop and seek help to stay active in the relationship, since it has chosen to be in a relationship, both need to find a middle ground for satisfaction in the relationship.