Tell me how you tell me i'll tell you who you are
Effective Communication and Tantra
posted by Sasha - TANTRA EARTH
Communication is one of our most effective tools we have and is what sets us apart from other mammals and animals, being able to establish verbal, non-verbal, corporal, written, symbolic, dialectic, interpretive communication, and so on.
An interesting concept within hypnotic therapeutic processes is that we are in a state of hypnosis all the time, all the time we establish communication with ourselves to the point of placing ourselves in different mental and emotional states establishing pacts and beliefs within the way we experience our lives .
There is also the concept that hypnosis itself is not about losing control of the mind to another person, but about establishing total control of the mind itself through experience, and we do this with us all the time. A party, lecture or speech that can be sensational to someone else can be terrible.
Within this perspective, this pattern also occurs with our daily experiences. Every experience happens twice, the first as it actually took place before us, and the second as it takes place within us. We have five senses capable of making a filter for this information to reach our neural synapses, and these five senses are worked out of our lives until the moment from childhood, where we come into contact with this vast sensory world of the body.
Everything starts in the body and ends in the body. When we are born our senses are virgin, every experience improves what we have to discover with its organic functionalities, and in adulthood everything that we set as a standard due to these sensitive-bodily experiences brings some pattern, memory or even memory in the interaction with these daily life experiences. Whether you are aware of them or not.
From violent to loving communication, everything passes through our senses and everything is learned by our body and even by our mind thus bringing our own form of internal communication. And something learned, whether by habit or by encouragement from our own environments, stays with us until we realize who we are behind the various characters we have established in our pact of experience. From the role of the daughter, the mother, the husband or the lover, the best friend, the good listener, the lazy or the incapable, the nervous to the Zen, everything is taught to us before we are really.
In childhood we are a faithful portrait of what we really are / would be / will be and gradually we are being polished by different institutions to be who we should be for family, society, partner, friends and other social roles with which we establish association.
In the deconstruction of this self-mirage image, we often feel empty to let go of what we were taught to be, to be who we really have the potential to be. Sometimes only the process of polishing through the mind itself in articulating an effective communication using tools such as NLP, neurotransformation or even hypnosis still passing through the mind, needs to reach our deep emotions to be effective with success, however we are in turbulent seas with our minds, where there is a lot of resistance from the shadows in surviving new times of fluidity and surrender.
The key that I consider to be of utmost importance for all this setback, is to activate precisely our physical potency, the beginning and end of all experience as humans in the here and now. Our consciousnesses are activated and deactivated through the same portal, the physical body.
Unlike the mind that can articulate, the emotions that can hide, the body is not performative to the point of generating dubious or dual communication. It does not hide, everything you are is in the body. There is a scientific method that unveils what kind of mind a person has, only through body analysis, identifying how a person behaves and how he has behaved throughout life, this includes the basic process of the five emotional wounds and basic sensations that everyone we are exposed in our childhood: rejection, abandonment, manipulation, humiliation and betrayal.
This science began in the XNUMXth century, at the height of the Vienna psychoanalytic school with the father of psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud together with his promising disciple WilhemReich, until his studies and theories on vital energy (which I adopt for calling it sexual energy) transformed it. an outcast to the scientific community at the time.
When I jump with all this information about how you communicate with you, with your experiences and memories for the teachings of Tantra, here I establish an almost straight and tenuous line that leads to a single place, where what the body is not dual, does not articulate and don't lie. From the moment you focus on the teachings and philosophy of Tantra, everything is given to you by right and unveiled by practice. Nudity is not only physical in the deepest moments of touches and bodily activations, you are also placed in front of the mirror with such sincerity and transparency that everything is revealed to you from the body. Your black boxes of the unconscious are opened to you one by one, deeper and deeper, deeper and deeper into who you are inside, deep down. Communication based on your truth is given to you, the internal noises before they hit are deafening, but don't cry, living a life that is not your own, can cause you to be deaf.
The screaming of an unconscious that is not heard is much more uncomfortable and greater than listening to what screams within you and calls for attention and inner shelter. The old communication no longer fits you, like an old outfit from a distant (or not so) childhood that doesn't decorate you, it doesn't say more about you today, but about who was there. This ability to live twice the same reality can be totally accessible and transformed, one time with what actually happened, and the other time with what you recreate within yourself. We left an unconscious state of hypnosis and entered a state of consciousness and mastery of communication that we rightfully established with us, having effective control over our minds and ourselves. In this way, the body frees itself from that which hinders its soul and creates potency for the potential that is you living in itself.