Erectile Dysfunction

Erectile dysfunction is a problem that can make a man extremely bad emotionally, greatly impairing his quality of life in several aspects.

There are different stages. There are cases where a man can get an erection but cannot sustain it. And there are cases where you can't get an erection at all.

It is quite common for men who have had a prostatectomy (a surgical procedure to remove the prostate gland) to take some time to get and maintain an erection again. During this period, the innervation that is in the process of recovery does not cause an erection, there is a decrease in oxygenation of the cavernous cylinders of the penis that cause it. The beginning of recovery occurs from three months after the procedure and can take up to two years. In this case, the stimuli of tantric massage can help to restore bodily memories linked to pleasure, as well as to reorganize new neural synapses, activating new conditions that can lead to new possibilities for orgasm.

It is very important to note that at any stage of erectile dysfunction, being related to different causes, it is essential to follow up with a urologist, as well as to be up to date with the exams and medical guidelines. There are many physical health issues that can be involved, such as diabetes and hypertension, where the body is no longer able to pump blood to sustain an erection. In such cases, all these issues need to be controlled before starting tantric massage sessions.

Massage will help when there are no drug issues, no physical issues. It helps a lot when erectile dysfunction is related to psycho-emotional issues and beliefs, even if the person is not aware of them.

Tantra will help this man to regain his self-confidence, work on his body awareness, he needs to feel his body (there are cases in which he cannot perceive if he is having an erection or not, it is necessary to wake up the body to feel it ). It is necessary to work on breathing, sustaining energy in the body, recovering internal confidence in yourself, in your own potential.

Generally, men who develop a lack of confidence capable of triggering erectile dysfunction are people who are in a transitional moment in life: they are experiencing a very serious time of stress, or a very great loss, or they no longer feel loved. , or they lost their partner, or they went bankrupt, or they were cheated on, or they broke up, or something like that. All these issues must be worked on in a welcoming and continuous way. It is important for him to realize what he is no longer able to sustain in life, what situation or what feeling is making him feel powerless.

These are times when the man feels disconnected from his own power and this is reflected in the difficulty in having or maintaining an erection. This impotence means: “I am powerless in the face of the situation I am living”. Tantra brings awareness to the body of how powerful it is, and realizes its own strength. It's not just genital work, it's a work that takes into account the human being as a whole, to bring out all this dormant potential of life. In general, these cases are simpler to resolve.

When erectile dysfunction is related to very powerful beliefs, the process can be a little more difficult and slower. Beliefs such as: “Sex is ugly, wrong, dirty”, “Being homosexual is wrong”, “I live with a person who diminishes me”, “I am very demanding”, “I am all wrong”, “I am incapable”, “No I don't do anything right", "I'm weak", "I'm not enough", "I'm smaller than my partner", among many others, can represent very heavy demands and beliefs, these are issues that need to be worked on psychologically, in together with the physical issue.

Tantra empowers. The more massage the person receives, the more they become empowered, this comes from the sexual energy itself circulating in the body. It is a work inherent in the sexual energy being activated.

Sensitive Massage plays a key role in this process. To trigger new neural synapses and increase the body's bioelectrical potential. It can lead the person to the encounter with his/her personal power, with his/her self-esteem, with his/her strength. In conjunction with specific maneuvers in the genital region, it will help to sustain an erection. It's associated work. So much of the body itself, the emotional structure, along with the physical issue of the body's response. To expand orgasmic potential is to expand an entire life potential.