Pain in Sex (Dyspareunia)
How can Tantric Therapy help?
posted by Must Nishok
Called "dyspareunia", the pain that occurs during sexual intercourse can represent a greater impediment to sexual satisfaction for women. In this situation, which can occur at any age, pain can appear at the beginning of sexual intercourse, in the middle, during penetration or outside it, at the moment of orgasm or even after the intercourse is over.
The pain can be burning, acute, burning or spasmodic; it can be external, in the vagina, or inside the pelvic area or abdomen. The incidence of dyspareunia is not known for sure, but it is estimated that 15% of adult women, sexually active, have already experienced pain during intercourse (penetration) a few times a year. Research shows that high numbers of adult women who have painful sexual intercourse are high.
Dyspaurenia takes away a person's sexual pleasure and can interfere with sexual arousal and orgasm. Fear of pain can produce anxiety, tension and totally affect the reflexes that produce arousal. In many cases, the person ends up avoiding the sexual act or abstaining from all forms of sexual contact, with implications even in the withdrawal of relationships.
The partners of women with dyspareunia must be very understanding and sensitive to their feelings, helping them in the search for treatments that welcome them and help them to overcome the problem.
Our treatment
At Comunna Metamorfose, through the Deva Nishok Method, we develop a methodology where the therapist feels and recognizes the physiological signals that the body communicates, reducing tensions and connecting, little by little, the sexual muscles with pleasure.
Depending on the severity and intensity of the problem, the "trauma", filed by the neuromuscular reflex in the person's body, opens up and overlaps the traumatic experience with new information related to pleasure and orgasm.
Some cases are resolved with a single session, while others require 3 to 10 sessions, undergoing sensory re-education processes.
In consultations, the therapist does not confront the body's defense system, as this only reinforces the trauma. In a complex work of reintegration of acceptance and affection, he reorganizes the sensations, causing the body to open naturally, allowing himself to experience new levels of sensory deepening, without arming the defenses that produced the tension and pain that affect the sexual act. .
In a few sessions the woman is able to experience pleasure and regain the confidence necessary to live her full sexuality.