Frequently asked questions regarding the tantric massage session
posted by Deva Harischandra Jessica
I listed here some questions that I receive often, and of course, I answered about how the tantric massage session conducted by me works. It's always good to remember that each therapist has their own vision and way of conducting the work, and they can be very different from mine.
Who is tantric massage for?
For people over 18 years old, who seek self-knowledge, body awareness, personal development, development of orgasmic and energetic potential, self-esteem, personal power, break with conditioning or who want to solve sexual dysfunctions of emotional origin.
Should there be any preparation before the massage?
I recommend that the food before the massage be light. Also, just go with an open heart to allow yourself to surrender to the process.
Usually, before the massage, I lead the interactor through a breathing exercise, bioenergetics, or meditation technique.
Does the person receiving the massage get naked?
Yes. A little shyness is common at the beginning of the first session, but soon everything becomes quite natural, as in fact is nudity.
Are there touches in the intimate region?
Not necessarily. In Sensitive Massage there are no touches in the intimate region, and believe me, it is still possible to reach incredible altered states of consciousness with it.
In the other tantric massage modalities of the Deva Nishok Method, there are touches in the intimate region. They are specific maneuvers, developed by years of studies, that help us to decondition the body from the usual forms of pleasure and open us to countless other possibilities. These maneuvers are performed with the use of latex gloves, for biosafety reasons.
Have sex?
No.
Not even pay more?
No.
Are there mouth touches?
No. Only with the hands, in a tantric massage session.
For those who take the free course in tantric massage and want to use the technique in their personal lives, nothing prevents them from using their mouth, hair or any other part of their body in their relationships. You can create as much as you want, as long as it's good for everyone, I recommend it.
Can the interactor touch the therapist?
It is common for the interactor to touch him once or twice involuntarily during a session. But intentional touches do not occur.
Is it a job for client sexual satisfaction?
No way. It is a work of self-knowledge, self-healing and personal development. It is not possible to choose how you want to be touched, wish fulfillment or fetishes.
It may be very pleasurable, but the therapist conducts the session.
Is the therapist naked or in exciting underwear during the session?
No. I wear pants and a shirt all the time.
How long does the session last?
The massage itself lasts for 1 hour. But it's important to go with enough time for an initial conversation, in addition to the time needed for integration.
Are there orgasms during the session?
It is possible that there are genital orgasms and full-body orgasms, ejaculatory and dry orgasms. But there may also be no orgasm at all. The fewer expectations you create, the better.
Massage is an invitation to close your eyes, forget about everything external, go inside yourself and just allow yourself to feel what your body has to deliver at the moment.
What is the main purpose of tantric massage?
Work on the rise of kundalini energy, which is our vital energy, sexual energy, energy of creation, healing and fulfillment. Bringing countless benefits to our lives, in an extremely comprehensive way.