What if I can't get an erection?

posted by Deva Karuno

Has it ever happened to you, a situation in which you believed you should have an erection and failed?

EXPECTATIONS, ERECTIONS AND TANTRIC MASSAGE

Which describes you best ...

· Did you create an expectation about tantric massage that you should have an erection? Put yourself under pressure to make it and felt bad if you didn't?

· You have had one or more experiences where you failed to get an erection. You want to regain your confidence and prove to yourself that it's okay. However, there is a fear lurking in the back of your mind.

· You no longer have erections due to medications or previous surgery, or some medical condition, or you haven't had them for a long time.

Is tantric massage only for men who have erections easily?

What you want to know...

· If I don't have an erection easily, is there any sense in me going?

· Is it a complete waste of time and money if I go and don't get an erection?

· What experience will I have if I don't have an erection?

· Will I see something wrong with me? What if I go and I can't get an erection?

· How will I deal with embarrassment and embarrassment if I can't get the erection I expect?

Did you go or come for a tantric massage session with the intention of testing yourself?

Ask yourself ...

Has anxiety about an erection helped you to have one before? Have you noticed that the more strength the harder it becomes? Nothing is going to chase away an erection with your mind trying to force your body to produce it. Erections start from expectations as prey flee from their predators.

So, keep in mind that in tantric massage, there is no expectation that you will have an erection. You need to understand what is going on inside you, what you think you should do, what you are trying to prove, what expectations are on you.

Many men live with a limited view of their sexuality, a view that is unfortunately endorsed and promoted by popular culture. If you are ready to expand beyond that, to break free, find out with all the essential information about tantric massage and let your journey to freedom begin.

Namaste

Deva Karuno

Important Note: During therapy, I remain fully clothed and do not wear underwear. Tantric massage is not a sexual or erotic service. It is exclusively therapeutic work, without any fantasy or fetishistic connotations. Hello, I am Karuno, Integrative Therapist and Professor of [...]

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