Premature Ejaculation

Also called premature ejaculation, it is the most common of male sexual dysfunctions. Premature ejaculation (ejaculatio praecox) is unmistakable, characterized by man's inability to control the ejaculatory reflex. Once he is sexually aroused, he reaches orgasm quickly. Premature ejaculation can happen with or without penetration; some men ejaculate with only a small tactile or even visual stimulus.
 

For some clinicians, the time between introduction into the vagina and ejaculation is the criterion for determining the diagnosis. For the Tantric Vision of the Way of Love, a man is considered an early ejaculator whenever he reaches ejaculation before his / her partner obtains orgasm and the peak of pleasure.

The man's ability to control his ejaculation is crucial for a perfect performance in the sexual act, capable of providing pleasure to both partners. The good sexual lover must be able to continue sexual games, even if he is involved in a high degree of arousal, allowing the partner to reach a high level of arousal and orgasm.

At Comunna Metamorfose, we offer a methodology that promotes sensory re-education based on the perception of sexual energy. Many men confuse our work thinking that it is a mere masturbation. In fact, we discourage men from practicing masturbation, because according to our observation, it is one of the conditions that most reflect on the mechanism of premature ejaculation, as it “addicts” the touch on the genitals in the speed of stimuli, creating involuntary reflexes that are difficult to to control.

Our work is not masturbatory, nor do we recommend that men maintain a sexual attitude in relation to our therapists, who are not call girls and do not lend themselves to satisfying clients' sexual fantasies. Clients who wish to feed their pathological and perverse aspects, underestimating the intelligence of women, should look for harlots and prostitutes. Our space does not lend itself to this type of service, even if other spaces use Tantra as a means of prostitution.

The Method developed by Deva Nishok requires the client to have another attitude, receptive and open, dissociated from the representation of sexual roles. He needs to position himself as a client who is being treated and not as a “Latin male”, who does not know how to behave in the presence of women. Man needs to learn to be passive as well, he needs to learn to receive sensory stimuli related to touch, in order to reorganize his sensory information in sensory decoding centers, located in the brain and along the spinal column. Only then will you be able to value touch in the same way that women value it.

Many men have great difficulty in receiving affection and caress. Thus, there is a difficulty in understanding that the effect produced by soft contact produces certain results in the mind and brain, which result in the supremacy of orgasm and pleasure. On the other hand, the penile musculature is hypotonic - it has low muscle tone - and cannot sustain a higher energy of pleasure with greater demand, for longer. The greater the valorization of masturbation and fantasy on the part of the man, the greater the likelihood of becoming an early and impotent ejaculator.

The problems associated with premature ejaculation go beyond the genital sphere. Along with ejaculation, the man perceives the absence or decrease of the erotic sensation. The path of sensory information from the nervous system becomes congested with excitement and the proximity of orgasm and men end up experiencing a sensation of anesthesia of the genitals, as the energy rises very quickly to the adapted sexual center, the brain congested with eroticism .

The man who experiences genital anesthesia is not aware of this phenomenon, simply because he has not yet been re-educated sensorially, he never refined his perception, remaining as an observer at the moment of orgasm. When the man puts himself in the posture of an observer, dissociated from the roles of lover he represents in the sexual act, he begins to better understand and manage the mobilizations of energy caused by eroticism and orgasm, distributing the experience of intensifying energy, spreading it it to other muscles in your body and not just concentrating it on the ejaculatory muscles.

Men who suffer from ejaculatory incontinence are unhappy and distressed because of this condition. Failure to control orgasm produces a feeling of sexual inadequacy, charged with a feeling of guilt and an inability to bring the other person into a situation of pleasure, intimacy and orgasm. The lack of control causes the man to decrease and to frustrate his sexual contacts, feeling ashamed and anxious. Many men experience an evolution from their condition to regulatory impotence, as a reaction to the fear, guilt, anxiety and frustration.

Premature ejaculation can be caused by physical and psychological causes.

The Deva Nishok Method is for the man to repeatedly focus attention on the sensations of imminent orgasm and learn to divert energy to other muscles in the body, spreading the orgasmic reflex to the body, realizing that the orgasm can be felt in all muscles of the body. body and not just in the genital segments as it was conditioned in its previous learning. The method also teaches man how to get the best out of orgasm, through dry (non-ejaculatory) and multiple, non-sexual orgasms.

We recommend that men receive 6 to 10 continuous sessions to get the most out of their work.