delayed ejaculation
posted by Agni Maharani (Tina)
It is a sexual dysfunction where a man takes a long time to ejaculate, even with desire, erection, and arousal present. Some can't even reach ejaculation during sex. The curious thing is that in masturbation and without company, ejaculation happens.
What is the cure?
We must go to the cause of the problem, it can be triggered by the use of certain medications, such as antidepressants, for example, extremely frequent masturbation habit with a lot of force and pressure, alcohol abuse or other types of drugs, traumas related to the act of ejaculating, for example someone see the man touching himself in secret, repression, fear of getting a woman pregnant, pornography addiction, and if there is no complicity in sexual intercourse and there is no relaxation to surrender, the man concentrates on staying in that virile potency, since ejaculation means the end.
The greater the anxiety the greater this problem becomes. It is an exercise in learning to relax, day by day, training the body to conquer new habits and trying to identify what most delays this ejaculation.
It is interesting not to put it as frustration all the time, this creates a block when relating to the other, it is important to respect the limits of your own body, create a mature relationship that can adapt. Sometimes a problem is not resolved overnight and it can happen at certain stages of life. The merit of knowing your own body and being clear on the path to be traced will bring a lightness and quality to the emotional and psychological aspects of those who face this situation.