Is there a happy ending to Tantric Massage?

The number one lie about tantric massage is that it has a happy ending. It does not have!

Tantric massage is a beautiful experience, of sacred intimacy with yourself. It is nothing like it is sometimes portrayed by those who incorrectly use the term "Tantra".

Massage can take you deeply into a deep connection with the bliss of your own being.

How much happiness do you allow yourself to have in your life?

Tantric massage, pleasure anxiety and your peak of pleasure

We have a problem with bliss, with pleasure in this culture. Google lists millions of results for the term "pleasure anxiety", and terms like "pleasure guilt" are in common use.

When you were younger, were you encouraged to enjoy a healthy pleasure in your body and in no hurry to discover all the delights of it? Or did you learn to touch yourself to ejaculation and / or orgasm as hard and fast as you could?

In the latter case, you may think that ejaculation is the height of sexual pleasure, not the peak of pleasure you can have.

You can also believe that orgasm and ejaculation are the same thing. They are not! These are two events that tend to happen simultaneously.

Tantric Massage, Expansion, Integration and Release

In massage, your powerful sexual energy is not spent on ejaculation. Instead, you use your breath to move it around and enliven every cell in your being.

· Feel it flow and connect various energy centers in your being.

· To feel this with your genitals, the driving force of your sexual energy.

· And feel it with the belly, the center of the emotional part.

· And feel it with your heart, the center of love, compassion and courage, and your mind.

· And because you are an energy being, so feel it with your spirit.

Therefore, tantric massage is an experience of expansion, integration and liberation. It is a pleasure that goes far beyond simple ejaculation and orgasm.

In the case of men, over time, you can learn, if you wish, how to obtain the ejaculatory choice. Thus, you can last longer in intercourse, while enjoying every minute of that intimate moment. You can learn that it is definitely not about striving to last long and please the other.

Plastered sexuality

Imagine if all you have eaten all your life is eggs and fries. Then, one fine day, someone offers you a juicy steak with herb sauces. And it also comes with a complement, potatoes stained in butter with a delicious cheese sauce on the side.

You may wonder what the taste will be. After all, you haven't seen anything like it before. But once it proves, you realize, "Wow, how I missed it so long ago." You will find it difficult to go back to the old egg and fries after that.

Are you in the old routine of, every time you have an erection, do you think it will lead to an ejaculation? Have you been on an egg and fries diet?

If so, you have no idea what you're missing! Not even!

Often, you won't try anything new if your usual food is on the menu. In a tantric massage, ejaculation is taken out of focus, so you can have a broader experience.

What you want?

Now you may not want this. Tantric massage may not be for everyone.

You may want an erotic or sensual massage, with a happy ending. If so, it's good to know what you want. Pleasure needs no justification. Now let go of any shame of wanting this experience.

Just don't call it a tantric massage because an erotic massage with a happy ending is NOT a tantric massage.

In our culture, there is a lot of shame associated with pleasure, especially erotic pleasure. Therefore, some masseuses and clients play the game of calling erotic massage tantric massage. And this is where confusion originates, which causes problems.

Men who could benefit immensely from all that tantric massage has to offer, run away and Tantric professionals practically abandon the profession. And life becomes more difficult for those who stay.

The focus and intention of a tantric massage

A happy ending massage ends with the release of sexual tension through ejaculation. Tantric massage has a completely different focus and intention. It does not release sexual tension through ejaculation.

He takes advantage of the sexual energy, which together with the use of his breath, flows throughout his being. Thus, in tantric massage, you can have an experience of integrating your mind, body, heart and soul. Sex and spirit go hand in hand with your sense of healing from any disconnection or division between them.

So now you know why a happy ending is not part of a tantric massage. If you want a tantric massage, it is advisable to do your own research first. Look behind the veil of what's on offer.

Here are the 7 ways to know if what is presented to you as a tantric massage is real, or something else:

· Sexual Objectification - This is a denial of the totality that is Tantra. It reduces a person to a set of body parts.

· Hidden Practitioner's Identity – A Tantra practitioner is proud to be in this tribe and is unlikely to hide his face or true identity.

· Complete lack of understanding of what tantric massage is

· No emphasis on the importance of breathing - Breathing is essential for your energy to flow, it is an integral part of massage.

· Short sessions available – Sessions of 1 hour or even less.

· Alcohol use – Tantric massage is love and awareness, expansion and release. Alcoholic beverage does not match; as it is a low-vibration neurotoxin that acts as a nervous system depressant.

· A “happy ending” is included – We are debating this.

Tantra - to expand and release

The root of the word "Tantra" means to expand and release. A happy ending is the same as always, repeating a limited and limiting experience. A happy ending generally does not lead to expansion, integration or liberation. It's your choice.

Living as a slave to your unintegrated sexual urges in the long run can lead to some of the most common so-called sexual problems that afflict many men today. And you know it is not really satisfying for you, or for your partner, but until now you never knew there was another way?

· To evolve and become the master of your sexual power.

· Enjoy this exquisite feeling of deep intimacy with yourself.

· Learn to make love to your partner (o) in a way that is much more rewarding for both of you.

· And enjoy love, sex and intimacy without anxiety.

Is it time for you to evolve?

Namaste,