I failed (broochei) and now?
posted by Agni Maharani (Tina)
They say that sooner or later every man will blow up, at least once in his life.
When dealing with pathological factors such as hypertension and diabetes, it can sometimes prevent an erection. Episodes like this are more common than you think.
A relatively healthy man believes that this can never happen, but a man with a psychological distress may have trouble maintaining his erection. Stress, anxiety and insecurity can haunt men.
I usually say that the problem is not to broach, the problem may be in how to deal with the episode, the social pressure is very high on the man, because they emphasize that they must always be willing all the time. Depending on the partner, she may think that the problem is with her, as it does not supply the partner's pleasure, and this creates uneasiness between the couple.
Faced with a situation like this, any wrong phrase can make everything worse, so much respect and empathy to circumvent the situation.
The most advisable is for the man to understand the reason for the failure, it may be excessive alcohol, worry, peak anxiety, tiredness. If the episode is infrequent, there is no need for something to be wrong, nor is it necessary to seek medical help.
We know that man has difficulty making the blowout natural, but it is necessary to take a deep breath and move forward.
Continuing to caress is enough to try to neutralize the situation. This helps to relax and the erection may gradually return.
It is important not to feel abandoned, and it is not a shame, it is more normal than we think, it is just not exposed for fear of judgment.