sexual fantasies

In Tantra there are no judgments, no repression, the process of perceiving oneself is cultivated, awakening sensoriality, discovering new areas and sensitizing them to the point of feeling pleasure and energy going through the whole body. This energy that we work with is one of the most potent known as sexual energy, kundalini, libido, vital energy, life energy and disposition that we use for everything in our daily lives.

In sexual life, the little we hear about has as its main tip the option "SEXUAL FANTASIES" and there are many people who are adepts. Regardless of which fantasy, whether it's creating a character, wearing clothes, playing stories... Fantasizing has several benefits when imagining situations you would like to live, using creativity, activating excitement, desire, libido, helps you get out of the rut, meet your desires , if you allow...
For a long time, innovating with fantasies in my sex life was essential, starting with the use of lingerie or sensual clothes that value female curves, 7/8 socks, accessories such as handcuffs, sex toys, erotic cosmetics, to clothes that enact characters. These games, in addition to excitement, bring with them a great sense of boldness, self-esteem, help the couple's relationship with more intimacy and complicity to satisfy desires. 

But everything out of balance can bring certain harm. In fantasy, pleasure happens in the head and not in the body, as it is stimulating the mental, the pleasure is in the imagination and the more superficial this pleasure is, the shorter it can condition, bring compulsion and disconnection from the body. The same can happen if the excitement is focused on the visual or whenever we seek pleasure only in external factors, from a fixation on the self image where the focus is on looking sensual, exhibitionism, staging, performance, need to imagine in a situation of content pornographic, among others.

The important thing is to bring awareness to the feeling of what is happening in the present moment. Each person is unique, who changes every day, so it's an invitation to get to know each other more and more.
Gratitude