Factors that contribute to premature ejaculation
posted by Lorena
In my online and face-to-face consultations here in Brasília, it is very common for some men to seek therapy reporting this issue of premature ejaculation.
First, we need to understand what characterizes premature ejaculation? It is considered a sexual dysfunction and some of the factors we use to characterize it are: ejaculation occurs even before penetration or with minimal sexual stimulation, it can occur soon after penetration (less than 2 minutes), it can also occur soon after 10 impulses.
What are the factors that can trigger premature ejaculation? Anxiety disorders, depression, fear of performance, post-traumatic stress disorder, sudden change in mood, breakup, unemployment, sudden change in the person's daily life that upsets the emotional, relationship problems (marital), recreational drugs or suspension of certain drugs , hyperthyroidism,
In this text we will focus on the emotional and psychological aspects. Premature ejaculation is a way in which your body has found to be able to relax, if you maintain a 24/7 exhausting, stressful routine and in a moment of leisure or a moment to dedicate yourself to something you enjoy, be it running, playing some instrument, swimming or physical activity. You end up taking the opportunity to vent stress through drinking, smoking and other drugs, this can be the perfect recipe that will contribute to premature ejaculation.
The purpose of sensory development is that during the treatment plan you discover new resources to deal with life's adversities, also understand that there is no such thing as extremely perfect and it's okay to flirt or have an ejaculation sooner than you expect, it's an opportunity understanding that the whole body can be stimulated with hands, tongue, fingers, with accessories during sexual intercourse, it is a great opportunity for you to discover new potentials of pleasure in your body and in the body of the other, leaving sex mechanistic, bringing more to the organic.
What are the symptoms? Ejaculation occurs without control, before desired.
May occur before penetration.
Ejaculation occurs after penetration.
There have always been issues with premature ejaculation or have undergone some sudden change that altered the sexual picture.
If you never stopped to think about these possibilities and are now thinking about it, look on the bright side, it is possible to identify what may be causing premature ejaculation, in relation to treatment, it can be done through a development with Tantric Therapy that is consisting of massage, meditation and breathing. Techniques from other approaches such as clinical sexology, psychotherapy can be used, all so that the person can have a good development.
Will a tantric massage session solve my premature ejaculation issue?
Certainly not. However, one session is enough for us to identify the cause, which are the symptoms you are presenting, all this survey is carried out through anamnesis that will give a guide on psychological and emotional issues. Through tantric massage it is possible to perceive the physiological cause, after the first session, a treatment plan is offered for sensory development with the aim of reducing triggers, learning techniques that you can use outside the session and that will assist you in handling of the situation.
It is a joint effort and for it to be well executed, commitment and responsibility are required. It is important to remember that, you are a human being and not a machine, you may have some issues with the emotional and psychological aspects and at some point, we will need to look at this through a safe place. My work is therapeutic and organic, it is important to develop rapport (therapeutic bond). The intervention of other professionals such as urologists and psychiatrists may be necessary.
If you want to know more information about the work developed for premature ejaculation. Send me a message. You can count on me on this journey.