PRETEND ORGASM

PRETEND ORGASM

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Let the woman who never faked an orgasm throw the first stone ...

This is still so common today that I wonder if this situation will ever change. In conversation with friends, clients, reports on the internet, I come to the conclusion that unfortunately this scenario is far from ending.

It is a type of comfort zone for women, many say they do not care and others do not even know what an orgasm is, let alone the way to reach it. There is still the aggravating factor of relating to a partner who is not dedicated enough, and amazingly, many do not really bother.

Okay, and why do they pretend? Why does the partner often inflate the ego and in the middle of intercourse he asks if he came? And why do many say yes? I believe that this is part of the performance, the famous team that is winning does not move, because it is not bad, it is just not true.

Many women take this performance in bed and on their backs for years, there is a script in sexual intercourse, where women are at the disposal of the man until his ejaculation, and ready, the sex ends.

It was no different with me. Then I solved myself or with the help of my vibrator. But that was enough.

I already knew my body well enough to know the easiest way to reach my orgasm, so I decided to lead my partner to it, and the amazing thing is that it worked so well that I regretted the time I pretended. And it works in most cases, as I had the opportunity to advise other women to do the same, their partners are flattered to be led. In this growth it is necessary to put aside shame, lack of dialogue and increase freedom, patience and dedication.

That's why I insist: women, your orgasm needs to be part of the show, renew, adjust, talk, stop pretending. Never is too late.

If it still doesn't work, either because you don't know your body, have difficulty reaching the peak of pleasure, look for a qualified professional to help you. Tantric massage is an excellent ally to awaken sensations never felt in your body.

Agni Maharani (Tina)
Body Therapist, uses the tantric massages and meditations of the Deva Nishok Method to provide altered states of perception and consciousness. It acts in the process of self-knowledge, healing of emotional blocks and traumas, sexual dysfunctions, in addition to expanding and intensifying the orgasmic sensation. Serves men and women [...]

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