INTIMACY X SEX
posted by Agni Maharani (Tina)
Having sex with someone does not mean that I have enough intimacy with them. Precisely because intimacy is far beyond sex.
I conquer the intimacy of the other when I learn to draw his body and the other facilitates the way for me to go through his pleasure. This makes me experience every corner of your body and I feel this surrender on my palate, this event needs to be reciprocal, each experiment becomes an experience and each experience becomes a hit, each hit turns into ecstasy.
The exchange of flavors with the other's body is not limited to the genital region, but a set, an exploration of the entire length of the skin, each piece, the aroma of each corner of the skin, the wetness of the kiss, the body temperature, care for the other, mutual exchange.
Are you ashamed of your delivery? Is there something missing in intimacy with each other? Doesn't the other have space or do you pretend to be satisfied?
Does the other surrender fully to you? Do you have multiple judgments if this occurs? Or do you feel flattered when the other hands you everything he has?
Many relationships lack this dialogue or the permission to access the other's true intimacy. Often there are demands for what was never promised, but created in the mind, and it also makes me want to receive something that the other person cannot give me. What one is able to give to the other needs to be clear within the relationship, it is honest, it is significant.
Create intimacy with the person you choose to have sex with. The limits of the body exist only in the mind. Bodies are free, and this freedom generates profound pleasure, bodies bound only to sex generate superficial pleasures.