Improve your sex life with tantra

According to a recent survey on sexual behavior in our country, half of Brazilians are dissatisfied with their sex life. When we look at the detailed numbers of this survey, it gets even more frightening. This not only creates a huge space for an unbridled exploitation of sexuality by brands of all types of products, but also creates a delay in the development of an entire population, which is trapped by sexist behavior, sexist behavior and finds itself hostage to an unsolved taboo. without having to resort to asking for help.

This is a consequence of widespread misinformation. Today's social models do not have any responsibility for people's sexual education. Most families are flawed in this regard, making repression the only point to be discussed. Thus, men and women end up learning everything they know about sex by watching pornographic films that, in 99% of cases, subjugate the woman and disassociate any and all forms of affection from the relationship, which transforms into an audacious rush to orgasm with poses, faces, mouths , moans and fake orgasms.

But against all this madness that has been established about human sexuality, there is a behavioral philosophy with more than 5000 years that teaches - among many other things - a healthy way to deal with sexual energy, both yours and that of the other. This philosophy is the Tantra.

Tantra - unlike speculative philosophies - proposes a more practical change in attitudes that involves feelings more than thinking. A change that, although felt more than rationalized, ends up internalizing drastic behavior changes. In sexual intercourse - the theme of the article here - the tantric principles overturn a series of paradigms and concepts that we created without realizing it. The idea is to turn sexual intercourse into a meditation. It is learned that nobody is responsible for the pleasure of the other, but that each one needs to know their own limits, understand their own sexual energy and know how to control it. Discover new stimuli, which awaken the body's bioelectricity and bring orgasm beyond the genital muscles, concentrating their energy on the entire musculature of the body. All the 5 senses are rediscovered and have an integrated and fundamental role in the relationship - the partners look at each other more, play with smell, with the taste of each other, learn to speak and listen to their pleasure. This lusts for intimacy, creates a positive complicity and reinforces the union.

Another detail - very confused among lay people on the subject - is the time of the tantric relationship. There is no rule, nothing that specifies that the relationship needs to last a long time, much longer than trivial sex. What changes in Maithuna - the tantric sex - is the goal; there is no rush towards orgasm - which releases the bioenergy of the muscles and relaxes the bodies. Accumulate sexual energy and expand it throughout the body, raising this energy throughout the spine to the last Chakra - bioenergy center - that we have at the top of the head. This awakens an altered state of perception, takes the couple to other levels of consciousness.

And this accumulation process, in itself, generates dry orgasms, multiple orgasms, orgasms devale, perennial, in short, orgasms for all tastes.