My husband has premature ejaculation, what to do?
posted by Natalie Machado
This post contains tips for you WOMAN to help your partner who is experiencing premature ejaculation.
In these last few days I have been thinking a lot about how I can effectively help people through my experiences, knowledge and work with Tantra. I found that the number of women who seek help for their husbands who suffer from premature ejaculation, lack of erection and other problems, is greater than the men seeking help themselves.
This touched me, as it means (among other things) that women are willing to help their partner but don't know how, and that men in turn are silent and often feel ashamed to seek help.
So I decided to write this article explaining how Tantric Therapy and Massage can help in these cases, and I will give you tips for you woman to take the first step.
1. The first thing is conversation and acceptance.
Pick a moment, tell your partner that you're noticing some things and that you know it's not just you who's feeling bad, you know they can be too and that you're willing to help in whatever it takes.
In a conversation like this it is necessary to put selfishness aside, understand the other in the best way and get rid of jealousy, insecurities and manipulations.
2. Starting from this safe environment, you need to make it clear that the first thing that must be done is to leave pornography aside. In the same way that we women suffer some sexual repressions and grow up with our sick sexuality, many men are encouraged from childhood to watch porn movies, therein lies the key to many, many more problems with male sexuality. If necessary, seek psychotherapeutic help. Remembering that pornography consumption causes similar effects to the use of some drugs such as cocaine, making the person dependent, say that you are willing to help.
3. You can propose the Sensitive Massage to your partner, or a subtle touch, this massage has the power to reconnect, to bring affection back without any charge... by performing this massage you can prepare a very pleasant environment and make it clear that There is no charge there, during the massage he has no obligation to have an erection or ejaculate. Just feel! this massage has many benefits! Click Here to read more about it.
4. Suggest to your partner that they see a tantric therapist for treatment. In the sessions, the therapist will apply massages, breathing practices and meditations that will re-educate his body and mind. You can take courses and practices together (es) but it is important to go through an individual development.
5. There are many other Tantric meditative practices to heal your relationship. To take the body to a new experience of pleasure and reconnection for the couple.
6. If your partner is open, also suggest that he participate in the Male Sexuality Journey, a unique experience where he will learn to reconnect with his own body and soul!