Woman: What made you forget the pleasure?
posted by Antar Vartan (Ronnei)
[art by Leonid Afremov "Moments of Pleasure"]
The legacy of repressive and religious patriarchal creation makes many women not care about the pleasure obtained through their bodies.
Feminine sensitivity tends to take a back seat even in long-term relationships. Perhaps due to the accumulation of household chores, motherhood and all the care required by the stereotype of vanity that the woman came to believe in, time has become short with regard to female pleasure.
The woman's body can be mutilated without guilt or ceremony, as in surgical interventions during childbirth, where the physiology of the body has all the necessary resources to fulfill the objective of giving birth - in the vast majority of cases.
In ancient times many women were forced to wear the chastity belt. A device that involved the female pelvic girdle and had a padlock that the husband locked in his absence, to ensure that his property was not violated. During her husband's absence, the woman could not clean her genitals.
Such abuses created the cultural record of submission creating the history of male addiction. The man had the established right to exercise violence on the female body by implementing the pain register on him.
The female body served male interests and few women went beyond what male savagery allowed. Except the transgressors who dared to touch, travel, study, work, not accept the arranged marriage, drive, vote, that is, break the chains and overcome the barriers that limited access to the pleasure of living.
Because of the male possession over the female body, the woman's genitalia was known only for its reproductive function. Until recently, the structures of the female genital and its immense potential to provide pleasure to women were not known.
Penetrative sex conditions women to the orgasmic limits of men. Since most men limit themselves to having sexual intercourse for the purpose of ejaculation and it happens quite quickly, many women do not reach orgasm and believe it to be normal. Those who reach orgasm do not know more than one or two, due to the impotence of some partners.
Thus, few women know the multi-orgasmic potential of their body, since the repressive culture limited the studies of the anatomy of the female body to reproductive function and religion castrated the chance of men and women to get to know each other, making sexual maneuvers understand besides penetrative intercourse as a sin.
In times of wifi internet with cell phone access, limiting access to information can no longer be an excuse to perpetuate uncomfortable situations. The woman's pleasure is personal and non-transferable, and can only be shared.