Tantra isn't always about amazing orgasms

It would be perfect if every tantra session was about super orgasms, however, this is not what happens in practice. Tantric touches, and the activation of the body's bioelectricity, have the curious property of reactivating secret, unconscious memories, and this means that traumas, repressions and anxieties can surface.

A tantra session can be about crying, sobbing and screaming, and not necessarily about pleasure and orgasm, but do not be alarmed, as it is a beneficial release, so tantra cannot be reduced to a "massage", but rather, it should be treated as "body therapy".

All the repressions and traumas that we have experienced since early childhood are stored in the body, in muscle memory, and end up forming emotional and psychic blocks. It is what Wilhelm Reich calls "Chestguard of the Character" in his work "The function of the Orgasm". Armours are defenses, which have the important function of preventing our suffering, however, over time they become old defenses, already outdated, from when we were very young, and which can be (and usually are) harmful, precisely because they are not more useful in the field of protection from suffering, and end up depriving us of living a full and happy life.
A tantric therapist needs to be prepared to deal with these situations, as it is very common, that instead of pleasure, ecstasy and expanded orgasms, the individual can manifest memories of small or large traumas, such as sexual abuse, rejections and also abandonment. Reactivating these memories is painful, but it can be very important for the individual to understand various behaviors of his personality. Trauma awareness is a big step towards releasing and overcoming it. Over time, and doing sessions with some frequency, the body frees itself from these traumas, and is increasingly open to pleasure, to fullness, and then to expanded orgasms.
Tantra is a very resolving therapy for many aspects of life, which go far beyond the sexual field. A tantra session is not always about incredible orgasms, but it is always about knowing yourself better, in depth.
Tantra is life, tantra is expansion, it is liberation, it is awareness!