The inner wedding

In the post I made about curing loneliness, I mention that, in order to overcome this feeling, we need to fill ourselves up inside, by ourselves, in a way that nothing or nobody outside can do. Seeking the external can only bring more loneliness or attract partners that correspond to your energetic vibration of the moment. If you are disconnected from yourself, watch out!

Fill up

When you fill yourself, loneliness is replaced by a desire for healthy contact with other souls with the same frequency, and not those people who suck you like vampires.

Much of our education and conditioning denies the truth that we all have male and female energies (Shiva and Shakti) within us, regardless of whether we are in a male or female body. What we are all looking for, whether we are aware of it or not, is the "inner marriage", the union of polarities within the Being.

My other half!

It is worth bringing to our awareness that we must seek our opposite against sexual within an 'other'. You must be thinking like the popular saying “my other half”, or even, “my better half”. In the relationship, when this other 'half' does not live up to our idealization, our expectation, when they fall off the pedestal we put it on, we point the finger and judge for not being what we wanted it to be. "You weren't like that, you changed"! Of course they have changed, so have you. Everything changes. This is an inevitable fact of life. But that is not the problem. Your expectations of what the other should be is what causes you pain. Perhaps difficult to accept, but it is the truth.

Truth Freedom and Love

You don't have to believe me completely, but think of a time when you felt disappointed, betrayed, abandoned. Perhaps after a breakup, whether it was your choice or not. Now ask yourself, honestly, what were your expectations regarding this 'other'? It can be complicated to admit, anger can come, a mix of emotions. But if you want to taste sweet freedom and love, keep asking the question until the answer is revealed. The truth is always liberating.

The inner diamond

When you are no longer prepared to live a painful and half-life, dependent on other people or living your dreams, you will find that your pain is in fact caused by your own expectations, not by the 'other'. If you are awake and aware, you will find that, despite all the pain, they do provide a great mentor for you. They were teaching you to stop looking outside, in search of the treasure that is within you, teaching you to recognize, embrace and love your inner diamond.

It is time to wake up to your power. You must continue with this cultural program, which is a way to keep you disempowered, dissatisfied, believing in an achievement that comes from outside you, this is an illusion.

Unparalleled joy

When you wake up, this illusion ends. Freedom comes. It is the pure air of freedom. The illusion that enslaved you no longer exists. It is the freedom to live and love from a place of totality, from the union and integration of opposites. It is the freedom of any frustrated search for external and ephemeral gratification through a title of work, wealth, a measure of power over others, that “perfect” partner, your “other half”.

As you discover your own fullness, as you fill yourself up from within, the incomparable joy that comes from this discovery becomes a springboard to jump into exciting possibilities of life's enjoyment. You will have found paradise inside. And the effect on your inner marriage can be profound, as an entire person is much more attractive than half!

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Namaste,