What your mother taught you about sex.

For better or for worse, when we are children we copy the behavior of adults. That's how we learn to live.

The child is unable to judge whether certain behavior will be good or bad for his life. It simply copies. That's how the human being works.

The girl learns to be a woman by copying her mother, grandmother, aunts and female models. If the mother was sexually happy, the daughter will probably be too. This is because sexual behavior is not only what is done during sex. It is also in the way the mother related to the father, how she socially related to all people, if she was a free person, if she was a person more closed, more repressed.

The way the mother saw life, the subjects she talked about, the way she dressed. All of this also speaks of sexual behavior.

Even the fact that he never talks about sex, already "talks" a lot about his mother. Pretending that sex does not exist already brings a message.

And it all influenced his sexuality a lot. If your mother "told you without words" that sex is not natural, that it is not the right woman's thing or that sex is done to please a husband, there is a great chance that you will have internal conflicts in your sexuality.

Sometimes, in order to have sexual pleasure, it is necessary to look back and understand what is yours and what is your mother's.

What did your mother tell you about sex, even without words?