Is your sex behavior shaped by men?

In my appointments, when women talk about their sexuality issues, most of them tell me about their partner. What does he think, what does he want her to do in sex, what does he like, what did he say this or that as to how she does it.

When I ask: But what about you? How do you feel during intercourse? Most do not know how to respond.
Many of us were created to please men. It is part of our culture. Even as a way to protect us, since Mary Magdalene was stoned, the witches were burned, just for being women who had a behavior that did not please. They were too free.
This comes from generation to generation and even today, in times when there is theoretically sexual freedom, we women do not know each other. We have been paying attention to the man all the time and we barely know what we like, including sex.
So when she realizes that the man has a more conservative profile, she holds on, does not speak bad words, does not show to like some things, is more "behaved" in sex.
If she realizes that he is more of a libertarian type, she tries to respond and be super hot, sassy and have multiple orgasms.

And I ask again: What about you?
Do you like something more naturalistic or something more on the side of the fetish? Do you like penetration or do you prefer other stimuli like oral sex, smells, looks? Do you feel free sexually, can you even play or do you feel that you have an ideal behavior and get stuck in it?
I suggest that you start observing yourself without judgment. Just to know what you identify with most, what is your way. This way you can feel freer, more comfortable and less concerned with your partner's opinion. And you will feel less need to adjust.
I'm not talking about not giving importance to the man. Often he doesn't even ask for anything. Both are important. It's an exchange. But the more you know about yourself, the richer the exchange will be, the freer you will feel and the more pleasurable it will be.