Orgasm
Relaxation or Tension
posted by Anand Saraha (Adeh)
Daily we record bodily tensions, often generated by stress, fear, anxiety, anguish, pain, distress, among others. The same occurs with the female and male genitals. A body full of tensions inhibits sensitivity, including sexual sensitivity and, consequently, blocks pleasures, having difficulty opening up to ecstasy.
It is very common that people do not realize how much they tense the body in the moments of stimuli and do not realize that they are having spikes of pleasure combined with tensions of legs, shoulders or feet.
A direct and careful manual massage can effectively release tension, restoring body and genital sensitivity. As soon as the sensitivity is returned to the body, it opens up to sensations and pleasure, becoming more perceptive and bringing out all the senses. When the sensitivity is returned to the male genital, it becomes more flexible, warm, perceptive to the touch and the sensations, intensifying the pleasure even after ejaculation, this heightened sensitivity also allows the man to feel much pleasure even with the flabby genital . In the case of the female genital, as soon as sensitivity is developed, the vagina naturally becomes open to sensations, receptive, confident, allowing greater pleasure and relaxation during sexual intercourse.
In order to recover the sensitivity of the body and genitals, tantric massage and somatic sex education propose techniques that give new life to the body and especially to the genitals - in a simple way and using sound, movement and breathing are dynamic proposals that will bring awareness to the tissues, toning of the genital musculature, expansion of the potential of orgasmic sensations, security of the body itself, self-knowledge, erotic fullness, increased vitality, love, joy and development of the potential of each Being.
Watch the body! Notice if you are tensioned, evaluate your sensations during sexual intimacy? If you notice tension, use your breath, massage the area that is most tensioned or ask your partner to do it, try to reach ecstasy allowing total relaxation of the body. I can guarantee it is one of the best sensations we can experience.
Believe it is good it can get even better!