Dry Orgasm: is this really a problem? Understand!

Very common in women and little experienced in men, dry orgasm presents with similar or greater intensities than an ejaculatory orgasm.

However, not everyone notices this phenomenon, especially men, precisely because they are conditioned to ejaculation. On the other hand, women find it strange to have a wetter orgasm, such as squirt, since most do not experience this type of orgasm.

However, the drier orgasm can be more beneficial for everyone. In the case of men, it can have a greater quality of pleasure in sexual intercourse, as it becomes capable of prolonging its duration.

In addition, they may experience fewer drops in erection and greater control of ejaculation. Find out more about it below!

After all, what is a dry orgasm?

We know that, in men, urine and ejaculation pass through the same channel: the urethra. There is a muscle located near the neck of the bladder called the sphincter. It is responsible for retaining urine until it is time to eliminate it.

In sexual intercourse, more specifically, during orgasm, the sphincter contracts to block ejaculation from entering the bladder. Thus, the semen passes through the urethra and exits through the tip of the penis.

However, in a sex orgasm — also called retrograde ejaculation — this muscle does not perform its function. In this way, semen is able to enter the bladder instead of being expelled from the penis.

Despite being uncommon, this phenomenon does not affect feelings of pleasure during sex and is not considered a disease or affects the individual's health.

But is dry orgasm a dysfunction of the body?

As we said above, experts say that this event does not bring any harm to health and is not considered a disease. However, this does not mean that the phenomenon has not been studied.

In atypical situations, retrograde ejaculation can occur due to specific treatments - such as those against cancer -, the use of certain medications, bladder or prostate injuries, among other factors.

When none of these aspects are involved, this type of orgasm usually happens in young men, who are able to maintain an erection longer, or are able to climax more often.

With this, the dry orgasm happens at the end of the sexual act, because there is no more ejaculatory fluid to be expelled.

Can men and women have a dry orgasm?

First of all, it is important to emphasize that the main element of sexual intercourse is to explore the moment and share the pleasure with the partner.

Then any other question must remain in the background; duration, intensity, accessories and, mainly, ejaculation.

This is because, as we have seen in previous topics, the absence of ejaculation does not represent the absence of pleasure.

It is no wonder that most women reach orgasm without expelling any liquid from the vagina. In practice, female ejaculation may or may not occur, regardless of whether the woman has reached climax.

Also as mentioned above, men can experience dry orgasm due to different factors. Therefore, it is valid to say that both men and women can experience this type of orgasm.

How do you know if a man has had a dry orgasm?

It is quite likely that everyone has experienced it in adolescence, more specifically at the beginning of their sexual life, when they started masturbating. During this period, orgasm is not accompanied by ejaculation. This only happens with habit.

However, in adult life, the focus becomes only ejaculation. With this, anxiety is more present and other sensations go unnoticed.

It can also happen that the man experienced the driest orgasm, but did not pay attention to the sensation. A dry orgasm is an orgasm in which psychological pleasure is felt but no fluid is ejected from the urethra.

And the opposite, ejaculation without orgasm, is there?

You already understand that orgasm and ejaculation do not necessarily go together. In this sense, if retrograde ejaculation is possible, men can also ejaculate without reaching climax during sex.

There is no specific cause for this; only possibilities. Outside of sexual intercourse, ejaculation can occur naturally, during sleep, due to contractions of the perineum and the elimination of the contents of the seminal vesicles.

However, during sexual intercourse, the main causes of ejaculation without orgasm are psychological. Something that generates anxiety during the act, can aggravate the situation and encourage the premature ejaculation.

The Benefits of Tantra for Dry Orgasm

Now that you understand the differences between orgasm and ejaculation, as well as these two phenomena can happen separately in a relationship, let's approach the subject from another perspective.

According to Tantra, if ejaculation marks the end of the sexual act, a dry orgasm can represent new possibilities for more orgasms.

In general, the use of sexual energy is proposed to promote different sensations, which are not usually accessed by the individual. Such sensations can provide unprecedented pleasures, enhancing sexual intercourse.

This concept emerged from considerations about the different possibilities of sex for different genders.

A woman, for example, is capable of experiencing multiple orgasms. Men, on the other hand, usually need time to recover before the next erection. In this sense, the dry orgasm is an alternative to this reality.

It is a new path to pleasure, which goes against the conventional trajectory, based on primary stimuli, followed by penetration and ejaculation. Therefore, Tantra helps the man, and the couple, to find new possibilities for orgasms.

In addition, it allows you to create a more solid connection between the couple, promotes self-knowledge and helps both to overcome problems, through a more intense complicity.

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Conclusion

As you have seen here, dry orgasm is a biological phenomenon that does not cause any harm to a man's health. Through Tantra, it can be explored to offer new possibilities for orgasms - for both men and women - and pleasures for the couple, increasing their connection and complicity.