The 4 pillars of Eroticism

Eroticism are basically mental mechanisms that reinforce our sexual desire, which can lead us to arousal peaks and very intense orgasms.

But what is it that awakens this frissom in us?

Jack Morin in his book "The Erotic Mind" says that the formula of eroticism is desire + obstacle, that is, what you desire, plus a dose of difficulty in achieving it.

And these obstacles are divided into 4 main pillars. See which one makes the most sense in your life.

Desire and anxiety: Do you know when you have a date and beat that anxiety to get the moment right, or that longing for someone who has not seen for some time and is about to arrive? This feeling is a cause of great excitement in some people, this feeling of waiting can greatly increase the temperature of the meeting.

Breaking rules: This is known, the famous "forbidden is more delicious". Yes, many people feel very excited to be taking some risk at the time of the relationship. Tr @ nsar in the car with the risk of someone arriving and seeing, for example, can make the experience unforgettable.

Feeling of power: That feeling that you can get the partnership to do what you want, can be very exciting for some people. And power can be exercised both by those who are in a situation of domination and those who are in a position of submission (when, for example, I feel that the other is in my hands when I am submissive to him.

Overcoming Ambivalence: This is the old situation of feeling horny for partners that are inappropriate for you. Like the woman who thinks a guy is super scrotum, but dies of desire for him. This feeling of wanting what is not in accordance with your values, can really give an injection of excitement in some people.

So, if any of these 4 pillars make sense to you, don't think you're crazy, because it is through them that the erotic mind works. The important thing is to know us and know how to use these factors to our advantage.

Tell me which of the 4 is the strongest in you ...