Why we should rethink our sexuality

We are living among young porn addicts, single mothers at the age of 14, couples who cannot maintain a relationship for a long time, men and women with all the sexual dysfunctions imaginable: dyspareunia, anorgasmia, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation. We live in the information age, and yet people remain blindly ignorant about sex, their sexuality, the full therapeutic potential that sexual energy has.

Wilhelm Reich - psychoanalyst successor and deserter of Freud - in his book “The Function of the Orgasm”, from the 1940s, already signaled that many of the human neuroses came from the repression of sexuality and the disconnection of the human being with his body, mainly with your gender. Repressive education, misinformation, creation and distortion of a whole morality around sexuality were pointed out by him as factors - or resources, if used with a focus on results by a government, for example - that generates various social issues. The absence of pleasure or the lack of his perception, little by little, continued to drive the human being insane.

And the distressing thing is that, since then, very little or nothing has been done to change this situation. We continue not teaching our teenagers what happens to their bodies; all sexual education carried out is composed exclusively of an almost fundamentalist discourse of all the diseases, ills, plagues and pears that a person can contract if he has sex without a condom. Score. It is amazing how we have not yet learned that by telling a young person that something is dangerous, we only increase the taste of the thing.

The pseudo-solutions market

The orgasm we experience is weak and insignificant. We have not yet figured out how to use all nerve endings, all of the body's senses to channel energy to orgasm. When this happens, the effects are therapeutic and almost transformative; an enhanced orgasm is the best hormonal regulator there is. Hormones are moods, moods. Look for the antidepressant package insert that someone in your family takes and you will find some hormones there. Oxytocin, serotonin, endorphin, all of these are produced on a large scale when we develop our ability to accumulate orgasmic energy. But when did you hear someone say that?

Never, as this does not make a profit for the pharmaceutical industry. It is much more interesting that people take medicine for their entire lives. For the same reason that there is very little scientific research on the subject. Masters and Johnson, American researchers from the 60s are still the greatest references in the technical literature on the subject. 55 years and virtually no progress. Hypocrisy and manipulation are such that the greatest scientific discovery about our sexuality in recent years was the creation of Viagra. Did anyone mention pharmaceuticals?

Tantra

And against all these absurdities, there is a behavioral philosophy that seeks to bring a better understanding of our sexual energy, its scope and potential. It is Tantra. Much more than a postulate about sex, Tantra is a bodily re-education, a discovery of the senses in order to bring more autonomy to the human being. Tantra teaches that sexual energy is a creative source of life - it puts death and sex on both ends of the same timeline.

Doesn't mankind need a force from the beginning? Doesn't the sexual relationship that conceives a life have the least influence on the formation of this new person who comes into the world? A quickie in the back seat of a car with a person who barely remembers the name given the ethyl degree of blood and a sexual relationship that lasts hours between two people who love each other and have intimacy are on an equal footing when it comes to developing a life?

Tantric teachings speak of the body, mind and sexuality in the simplest and most natural way possible. There are no taboos, no repression, no absolute truths, only experience. But don't get confused; there is no debauchery. Tantra values ​​intimacy, harmony and love, not slutty. No false moralisms here - Nothing against good slutty - but if the proposal is to change our reality in the face of human sexuality, more of the same will not help at all. The sexual liberation of the counterculture of the 60s and 70s did nothing, precisely because it had no purpose, no support. People were free to have sex at will, but as orgasms remained unsatisfactory, minutes later after intercourse, everyone was easily caught up in sexual compulsion.

Nowadays there are qualified professionals who use tantric techniques - body, meditation, breathing, among others - systematized in a therapeutic method. They are called tantric therapists. Here at Rede Metamorfose this is the main therapeutic focus. Talking to one of these professionals can help you a lot to change some paradigms in relation to your sexuality. Treatment by tantric therapy has been shown to be very effective not only in the treatment of sexual dysfunctions but also in cases of depression, stress crises and other pathologies. No drugs, no contraindications and no scientific support. Did anyone mention pharmaceuticals?

Tantric teachings speak of the body, mind and sexuality in the simplest and most natural way possible. There are no taboos, no repression, no absolute truths, only experience

- Sangito Deva