Why do we insult vaginas?

I grew up hearing things like: “go wash that cod”; “stop being a pussy”; is as ugly as a pussy.” So, although I have always been grateful to have one, because from an early age I started to touch myself and feel the pleasures that it could generate for me, I still felt some shame about my vagina. For example, when I was with my partner at home, I was always washing myself regularly so I wouldn't get the smell of "cod".

Okay, okay, it really does have a special smell, but if we eat and taste food with dubious smells, why do our body's natural smells need to be considered a fetid smell, if it's such a characteristic smell? If we're only going to find that scent there and nowhere else? This causes women to become inhibited with their intimate parts, they do not feel properly esteemed and appreciated, we feel ashamed of our bodies and that's it, we close ourselves off to the intimacies that we know will make our scents evident. Who loses from this? Everyone, because if women don't feel comfortable with sex, we all have less sex, we all lose out.

I'm going to tell you a little secret about me 😉

An account of one of my first tantric immersion experiences in the Metamorphosis commune:

In my training there was a very interesting smell activity. We were all blindfolded and undressed in a delimited space, the orientation was to just sniff, you couldn't touch or put your mouth on it, just sniff and you could smell whatever you wanted. It wasn't that surprising to me that armpit and vagina smells were the best body smells. It was very interesting to notice my reactions and realize that the excitement generated in me was greater depending on the smell, of course I didn't like all the smells of all people, but most of them did.

There is a scientific explanation for this: we are prone to be attracted to those we are most genetically compatible with. We were genetically programmed to find genetically compatible partners in nature to generate offspring with minor genetic deformities and increase the chances of their survival. So it makes no sense to be ashamed of our smells, because we are not going to please everyone, but we will greatly please the nostrils of many.

After this experience, the best smell I can think of is the smell of my own panties. And what is your favorite scent in the world? Leave me a comment ;)