- Can I touch you at the massage?
posted by Agni Maharani (Tina)
The purpose of the massage practice is that there is no touching by the interactant to the therapist, we want the same to be disconnected from any concerns, obligations or performance.
It is not the time for an exchange, the dedication is only for those who receive the massage. The therapist invests all of her attention and dedication so that that experience is more and more deepened in the pleasure that the interactant has inside her.
This resistance often prevents them from reaching deeper experiences.
And all this resistance is due to the fact that we place a dependency on someone, especially in terms of pleasure, giving and receiving.
"_How does the therapist give me pleasure and I don't reciprocate?"
Working with tantra is to access the vulnerability of each person, in a respectful and sacred way, without judgment. Betting on an oceanic experience, without fear of where your body is capable of reaching.
Allow yourself to get to know yourself, in this very particular experience, which we often cannot express in words, but in sensations!
I can look?
The experience with tantric massage is sensory. Although the word "massage" refers to deeper touches and muscle stimuli, in tantric massage we only stimulate body bioelectricity and the receptors present on the skin, mainly those responsible for the touches.
The interesting thing about having no visual stimulus is that there is no projection from the interacting part to the therapist. What the body does not see and only feel becomes much more true and intense. If you allow yourself on this trip, you will have a lot more opportunity to know your own world and your own body.
If you could have your meals with your eyes closed, you would give new meanings to the flavors of each food, so I think I invite you to venture out, experiment and delight yourself, knowing the flavors generated by the pleasure of being you!