To do with your love

A partner can be a great gateway to connecting with yourself and the divine. A portal of possibilities to find oneself in an extremely pleasurable energetic union that reveals how wonderful we are and what the encounters with the other are.

Cultivate your relationship, nurture your love, cherish this amazing portal that has connected to you. Be kind, loving, generous with those who are willing to share more than their body in such strong connections with you.

I wrote this text speaking in the singular, but each one can adapt to their life story and way of seeing life and can do with their loves in general.

I listed some suggestions to put into practice on a daily basis with your love:

• Experience connecting by looking, truly diving into the vast and deep existential ocean that each of us is. Make time for yourselves. Prepare the environment. Position yourself in front of each other and fix your eyes for a while, live this intimate experience with presence, as if nothing else exists beyond this moment. Just unite in the look and enjoy.

• Allow yourself to go over each other's entire bodies with subtle touches, with your fingertips, with your entire hand, hair, beard, your own body. Explore every corner. You may be surprised at how many parts of the body that are not usually touched can bring about countless incredibly pleasurable sensations.

Take the opportunity to sniff and run your tongue all over each other's skin. Just surrender and enjoy.

• Enjoy the kisses, be it a peck, very wet, full of desire or affection, hungry or tender, with or without a tongue. Enjoy, feel fully, enjoy, each type of kiss has its value. Just live.

• Make kisses rain on each other. Just cover the person with soft and loving kisses all over the body, in a dedicated, unhurried way, enjoying every kiss and every bit of your love's body.

• Put your mouth to your ear and say sweet, delicious, loving, affectionate, naughty, naughty, spicy words. Alternate with smells, licks and kisses on the neck and nape. It can be quite exciting for both of you.

• Make a relaxing massage with a very tasty and fragrant cream all over your partner's body, without necessarily intending to have a sexual relationship. Just enjoy. Give this gift with affection, exploring every bit of the body, they all deserve attention and care. So that whoever is receiving it feels very loved. It's supposed to be fun for both of you. Put love, attention, intention into every touch.

If you are a Reiki practitioner, complement the massage with a reiki application. It will make all the difference.

• Take advantage of the opportunities you have to bathe together and actively participate in each other's baths. In addition to taking the opportunity to enjoy many other possibilities that are not necessarily linked to the bath.

• Sleeping naked can also be wonderful for stimulating the senses and getting closer to each other. Caresses, smells and kisses are part of this moment that can go far beyond the rest of the body, providing a very positive sentimental nutrition.

• Dance together if you like. Dancing can be a lot of fun, sexy, stimulating and a very pleasurable way to release tension. You don't even need to "know how to dance", try just closing your eyes and dancing hugging, or connecting with your hands or fingers only, feeling the music, moving your body simply in the way that comes naturally, become the dance together. They are based on experience.

• And as important as anything else, be free and allow freedom for the other. Know that you are neither owner nor property. The space for a private life can make a very positive difference in the relationship and your love can feel much more involved, happy and willing to share moments with you.

The connection between the couple goes far beyond these affections and care, the way of treating, respect, partnership, friendship, good humor, the responsibility to deal with situations and relate to them, clear, sincere communication. and objective, are as important as any bodily relationship. The set of attitudes together is what will build an intimate, pleasurable relationship that feeds the desire to be together.

Of course, there are no rules to follow in any relationship. I only bring suggestions. If something makes sense to you, use it. If not, simply discard. Each person is unique and each relationship is unique and it is only up to those involved to create their own combinations and discover together the best ways to relate. Only live the way that makes you happy!