Why practice in an intimate relationship?
posted by Paloma (Pema Mani) and Thiago Longuini
This is Pema and Thiago sharing our thoughts on the intimate relationship between two people.
In the intimate relationship there is the challenge of tuning your ears to listen to the music that is created from the meeting between two people.
And then adjust the steps so that the dance happens with more lightness, fluidity and with two people willing to dance.
And just as a good dancer does, to express all his power at the moment of the performance, you can also do it for your intimacy or your relationship.
And what we can do is practice.
The Practices of Conscious Intimacy are a series of active meditations, dynamics of consciousness, deep reconnection exercises, double breathing techniques, attitude development, ritualistic, massage techniques and many other resources that can be learned and brought to the setting of their intimacy, which will anchor new perceptions of sexuality, enhance the loving and instinctive connection, provide longer periods of rest in pleasure, considerably increase the quantity and quality of your vital energy and many other benefits that we might not even be able to stop enumerating.
The most interesting thing about the path of a Conscious Intimacy is that there comes a time when practices cease to exist.
The couple creates a much wider space in their intimacy, perceives more clearly how sexual and instinctual energy flows in intimacy, surrenders and lets themselves be carried away by this flow. At this moment the practices and resources are merged with the practitioners and everything can be experienced in an organic and integrated way by the intuitive dance that happens only between the two of you.
Practice is a learning path, first you adopt some methods and techniques that will lead you to experience possibilities beyond those imagined in your privacy.
By repeating the same path a few times, your body learns new paths for the experience and soon you begin to realize that it is no longer the practice that leads you to the experience, but that you are leading yourself to these new spaces of pleasure. expanded.
The attitude of a practitioner is also always reminding us that we are apprentices, that we are not ready and finished, we are always on works, in the process of self-construction, we can always perceive new nuances of pleasure, give ourselves more deeply to him, rest for more time inside it and then feel the nourishing effect of the soul, the feelings and the instinct that can be anchored in any intimate relationship where there is a willingness and a legitimate desire for development.
There are those days when the couple wakes up with noise in the connection channel between the two people and then the practices can serve as support to break with the limiting pattern of the moment and reestablish the fluid connection again.