What advice would you give to a person who is getting married?
posted by Deva Harischandra Jessica
I have seen this question several times over the past few days on social media “What advice would you give to a person who is going to get married?”, and I have given some thought to it.
I would say:
Give yourself to love and delight yourself a lot.
Be a partner of your love, share the tasks, be together in important moments, be supportive, safe haven, friend, be a loving and welcoming listen, be the person to whom vulnerability can be shown and sincerely say what goes on in the heart, throw yourself into the projects and dreams that you cultivate together.
See in your love a sacred portal, capable of taking you to an encounter with all existence. Play, explore the senses. Look into your love's eyes, dive into its vast and deep existential ocean. Dedicate yourself to explore every little part of the body, vary the touches, smell, taste, feel, connect to your heart, travel your entire body with presence, without haste, without goals to reach another place, cherish every moment. Live each kiss, each touch intensely, connect with your hands, surrender to the presence of the other and enjoy it. Every second is unique and precious. Give yourself the gift of appreciating.
Observe, notice the sensations that your attitudes provoke. If they are hot, beautiful, happy, go ahead. If not, change.
Be honest, say what you feel, don't let your emotional wounds make you fantasize. When something is not right, if something has hurt or hurt you, be clear. Objective and honest communication can avoid misunderstandings.
Be light, cultivate a good mood, play, prioritize pleasant moments together, value the smells in your neck in the middle of the night and the rain of kisses all over your body at dawn. If you can, have a delicious breakfast, in addition to what is available at the table.
Dance together, dedicate yourself to love, enjoy a lot, enjoy the delights of life as a couple. Study together things of mutual interest, watch movies, read books, walk in nature, practice physical activity, do things together that nourish both of your hearts.
Shower together when you can, share nudity whenever appropriate.
Thrill with the achievements of your love. Celebrate together.
Take a tantric massage course with a therapist accredited by Rede Metamorfose. Learn amazing techniques capable of unbelievably increasing levels of pleasure and connection between couples.
Love yourself! Love yourself a lot and overflow that love. Take care of your physical, mental, intellectual, energetic and spiritual health with attention and affection. Remember that we are only able to give away what we have left over. Treat yourself the way you would like other people to treat you.
Be independent, have a life of your own.
Respect yourself as the unique being you are, free. With wishes, desires, desires, goals, dreams and achievements. Be honest about what you want or don't want, want or don't want. Everything can be said so as not to hurt the ones you love. Explain lovingly, and do not allow yourself to be hurt for having annulled yourself and then believe that you have the right to get up with fury and demands for having done or lived something that is not consistent with your truth or will.
Be responsible, receive situations and relate to them. Don't pretend nothing happened by throwing them under the rug and following falsely as if nothing happened. Solving is transmuting.
Love is precious. Sharing it with a special someone is divine. Enjoy! Allow yourself to live this love, grow with it, learn from your mistakes and keep walking, open to receiving all the beauty that life offers, with or without a partnership at your side.
Remembering that nothing here is a list to be followed, these are just suggestions. Each one takes what makes sense in life and discards what doesn't. That simple.
I wish whoever is getting married may be happy! Make the most beautiful choices for a light, tasty, horny life in every way.
Soooo love to you!