Relationship without dialogue
posted by Agni Maharani (Tina)
Have you ever stopped to think which way a relationship takes without dialogue? Have you ever lived or are you living a relationship like this?
Many relationships abstain from a good dialogue, where it would be possible to know more than the other likes, to know what bothers them, and they would have the opportunity to improve. One of the most common mistakes is finding it possible for the other to guess what we want without saying anything.
This lack of communication can generate fights, indifference and even a lack of respect. The less they talk, the more distant they will be from each other, the issues will pile up, the issues will also be unresolved, if the bucket overflows the likelihood of offense and hurt will surface.
We always have to remember that from the moment we start a relationship, we are getting involved with a different person. And although there is a lot of affinity, it is natural that there are ideas, values and opinions different from ours. This is one of the main points that make the dialogue so important (and interesting).
So it is the basis of relating to the other, we adapt in different ways for the other person to fit into our life, a reciprocity is expected. Through dialogue we gain new learnings, create ideas, we will know how to listen and give in. This is the building of respect between two people, if this connection goes well, the couple's growth will be certain, contributing even to a healthy and desirable sexual routine, more permissive to clarify what generates more pleasure.
Even a sexual experience without dialogue can be a failure, think about it!