RELAX AND ENJOY!

The Male relaxed in his power.

What do you look for in Tantra and propose to practice what really supports you in practicing that philosophy in your life? Many men seek the teachings that Tantra can provide with the vision of a male-based system related to sex or to increased pleasure or durability of erection. It's wrong? I do not think so. By definition Tantra does not deny anything, after all, the objective is precisely the reception of everything that is, a web that sustains and holds all its nature, from the most repressed to the most exacerbated, leading you to the contrast of the balance of these poles.

In a patriarchal and phallocentric society, justifying the masculine and his performance far from the phallus, is almost an affront to a society that took centuries under construction in the constitution of the use of maneuvers for his performance as males referenced (almost exclusively) to his member.

A series of beliefs and values ​​linked to these performances demand from man a level of performance that becomes a prison to which no one escapes unscathed from this obligation to express his most intimate and instinctive nature portrayed by the performance of the penis alone. The projection of the Alpha archetype in the species limits you almost absolutely to what you can offer in a single and limited stage of exchange, which ultimately does not become completeness in a relationship solely translated into sexual maneuver.

The etymology of the word Alpha allows us to understand this dispute in the natural territory of men for a space of expression in sexuality. Alpha is the first letter of the Greek alphabet, with a numerical value of one (1), that which gives principle and origin, that is, by numerology it is the primordial principle of the masculine in his perfect and pure energy, to appropriate in being the first, the active, the magnanimous of all others. When you are in this energy without relaxing in your own nature the pressure becomes enormous and your condition with your sexual energy will always be retraction or retaliation in a non-existent space.

And what does it necessarily mean to relax in your masculine energy? It is simply allowing yourself to feel, to get involved, to surrender in an appropriate way to everything that makes you up and that does not refer only to your member and the most primitive instincts that make you up. Osho in his work The Book of Men, brings reflections of extreme importance and that should not pass unscathed to any Shiva who is present in taking this path of Tantra in their lives, even if only with a focus on the expression of sexuality and that involves countless paths that not only exchange with partners.

"The common sexual act is just like that, but moralists say the opposite:" Don't get involved, don't 'enjoy' "," It's like animals do ". It's wrong! Animals never enjoy, only man can enjoy. And the deeper man can enjoy, the higher the species of humanity that is born. And if sex becomes meditative, enraptured, it will be possible to touch the highest level. But remember Tantra: it is a valley orgasm, not a peak experience. It's a valley experience! (...) And with an experience of tantric sex it is possible to feel a deep relaxation all day. ”

The linear timelessness and fixed on being assertive with the pleasure that is known and taught in many ways, including in our homes, where you are promptly attended to within your orgastic expectations, falls apart when the man in fact assumes he wants Tantra to improve its context, even in terms of performance expression. After all, this performance allows you to breathe in the absence of egocentrism and phallocentrism. It allows you a valid and profound interaction with your self and with whoever else is allowed to enjoy this abysmal moment.

This ecstasy can go on for hours, redirecting orgasm to places you can't even imagine in your body and psyche, in addition to your emotions. Places that you considered hitherto inhospitable due to pure repetition of what was passed on and learned by a society that does not allow you to express what is different from what is structured.

When you take that place, any and all Manichaean manifestations of a masculine order become evasive and frugal. Relaxation is a state of mind and a manifestation inherent in your body and no longer a workout, a loosening of muscles or loosening of the boundaries that surround you inside and outside, but something in permanence and belonging of your being.

This valley of relaxation, no matter how much one seeks a better disposition to articulate oneself in a better performance, is inherent in the security of being of every man that is entirely for you, and in the Tantra path it flourishes in the completeness of expressing itself being its highest level in presence and in perspective of experimentation and delivery.

Without haste and pressure to articulate a collective archetype that has existed for so long and that demands a lot of energy inside and outside you, it is assuming a space where everything that belongs to you is appropriate for you. The valley of relaxation that lives in you awakens and will always be ready to be accessed and lived in an active way and does not require any polishing of old silverware and obligations experienced by something you learn.

Release control and enjoy a masculine capable of feeling, receiving and giving pleasure in an uninterrupted way and that is not translated only by the act of penetrating or ejaculating. But with the enjoyment of being all in your potential, in your serpentine fire, free from the conditioning and imprisonments that have diminished you until now. Feel the true power of Alpha that each one can experience without a place fixed on any structural podium and that is pre-established superimposed on its nature and power to be unique.